This guy asked me out and i've never been on a date. i'm not allowed to go out yet i so i said i already have a boyfriend. now he told somebody and that somebody asked me if i had a boyfriend and i told them i just broke up couse he waz cheating.so like every one knows i'm single. what if someone asks me out again?
2007-06-26 14:42:00 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's a good idea....why not try telling the truth!
2007-06-26 14:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by IcanoutfishU 6 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Personally i would go out with him as friends. Your not allowed to date (that is a good thing, congrats to ur parents) but no one ever said you can go to a movie with a friend or friends ... to make it less of a date go as a group of people. It will help your parents trust your choices and build that trust with them and at the same time it will help you discover what kind of guy you really want. You'll also be with a bunch of friends so it will eliminate the possiblitey of an awkward moment at the end of the night ! Good Luck !
2007-07-04 14:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why start with a lie?...Then you'll have to lie again to cover that one up...Tell the truth. If you're not allowed because your parents say so then you're not allowed. What's more important, being respectful to your parents or trying to impress some guy with a lie?...In the long run, "honesty" always pays off, especially for you. There's nothing to be ashamed of if your parents won't let you date. They love you and are trying to look out for you...Honor them, your day will come soon enough!
2007-07-04 11:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by Domino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell them the truth- that your not allowed. trust me its not that hard and you wont feel stuck in a web of lies. the guy wont think any less of you because of it. if you were to say no with a fake explanation, he'd probably be able to see through it, and be hurt by the rejection.
so try sorry and tell the truth next time it happens. i swear to you, as a 15 year old, no one will judge you based on how protective your parents are. they will judge you for you and i wouldnt want to get the rep as a liar (even if it is harmless a harmless lie)
just stay true to yourself sweetie. and when you dont have those limitations anymore, enjoy the privilege of going out
2007-06-26 14:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by live for today 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh oh! Do you like this guy? Otherwise tell him no. If someone asks you out again and if you like them, tell them your friends begs to differ and that she doesn't like him and thinks he wouldn't be right for you. If that doesn't work, have um take it up with me, I'll show them who's boss. LOL
Honey, if you can't go on dates then don't go on them, if the boys are asking you out: heck, your real lucky! That also means you have the stronger power, you win. They are the ones asking you out, you can say whatever you want and they have to go with it cause they obviously like you.
Honey, if you have any more problems just e-mail me:
love_r_notes@yahoo.com
I'm here for you
- Lacie
2007-06-26 14:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by lotsa l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, talk to your parents first. Maybe if they meet the guy that you like, they might bend the rules a little bit. But if not, just keep saying no. Eventually when you are allowed to date you'll find a great guy.
2007-07-04 14:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by maddog2127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive.
You shouldn't have lied. If you had been honest, that person might have been willing to wait until you were old enough to date or been content with seeing you at school. That person will probably not ask you out again since you lied to him.
2007-06-26 14:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just tell the truth. It will get you out of the web of lies that you have to put up to protect your story. I think people's reactions will be less harsh than you're probably expecting them to be. Just let them know if they're truly interested then they have to wait! =c)
2007-06-26 14:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Why are you lying when you don't have too.... If everybody found out you were lying, they wouldn't want to go with you anyway. SO STOP LYING! Tell the truth, he may try to meet your parents and convince them to let you go out! GENIUS!!!
2007-07-04 12:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by crazie617 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you have parents that want to protect you and care about you - so you're not allowed to date yet.
2007-06-26 14:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you..? Well, you should have told the guy the truth, because if he finds out you lied he might not trust you.
2007-06-26 14:52:10 · answer #11 · answered by Crystal♥of♥Iris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋