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2007-06-26 13:50:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
One who dosent care about you aslong as your not bothering them. I wouldnt even call that a relationship. I rather have someone who is clingy/needy because that can always be fixed with a talk.
2007-06-26 13:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A clingy or so call needy bf can be frustrating. Especially those who for nothng just keep pestering you as to where you are, who are you with, who are you talking to, what are you doing now etc etc...such bf are so call conservative protective type, they want to control the relationship, in doing so, they keep asking silly question and want you to feel sorry/ptiy for him where actually there is nothing to be sorry nor pity about. In order to seek your attention, they like to create planned issue out of nothing. I would say these kind of bf do not behave like a real man, very childish. Can be sick at time.
For those care less type, you can forget about it, i believe a normal friend will care you better than him. To tackle such bf, you also act as care less type to him. Tell him you are dating another man, if he still care less, than it prove he is really hopeless. I believe such bf think that he is indispensable, kind of you without him will suffer, very arrogant and proud type, teach him a lesson, be more care less than him ya. After all, he might be care less about love too. As bf already care less, if become husband, guess he dun even care.
Well, there is no such thing as prince charming or perfect bf to go with, nor is there a perfect gf, but as long as both of you have love, care for each other, know the limit of each other, trust each other and alway happy with each other, i guess that will be more than perfect.
2007-06-26 22:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how 'needy' they are. If it isn't too much then I'd rather have a clingy/needy bf. It's hard to be in a relationship where it seems your partner doesn't care.
2007-06-26 20:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by °¤teehee¤° 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that's 6 of one, half a dozen of the other. Both scenarios suck. Healthy relationships aren't characterized by clingy, or indifferent behavior. I would prefer to be alone if those were my only options.
2007-06-26 21:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by Incongruous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ii think that having a bf who is clingy is better than having a bf who doesnt care..
you can teach them to not be so clingy in a nice andd easy wayy instead of having to yell at somebody who doesnt even care
2007-06-26 20:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a bf that doesn't care as long as u r not bothering them is horrible!
i would rather have one that is clingy and needy, i can handle that.
2007-06-26 20:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a boyfriend who could care less.
because if they could care less, then they probably don't care about you at all.
I don't think clingy/needy boyfriends are bad at all, except when it comes down to breaking up with them...that may be hard.
but i don't know.
but yeah, i think a boyfriend who could care less is worse.
2007-06-26 20:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by clearlyhere. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had both, and honestly--I'm happier with the one who seems to "not care". I know he does. I can have my life and him and not feel like I need to live my life only for the one that I'm with.
2007-06-26 20:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
out of the two i'd take clingy and needed. not the ignoring who gives a crap about you thing.
2007-06-27 00:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them BOTH and find another who cares about YOU.
2007-06-26 21:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋