Why is it that women like men who treat them like dirt, do drugs constantly, always break the law, and are all around idiots? Why is it that women do not like the men that will put them on a throne, and cherish them for just being them, and not use them as some toy?
2007-06-26 13:40:22 · 9 answers · asked by Brian 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just out of curiosity why is it everyone assumes that I lost a girl to a bad boy image and I'm bitter about it? I'm perfectly happy with my Girlfriend, and I'm just curious why most girls feel this way about these kind of people, and to all those who think I'm generalizing, you have never been to my city.
2007-06-26 13:59:15 · update #1
most of these kind of women have low self esteem of them selves and believe that the edgier the guy the better if its for nothing more then pissing their parents off. but sooner or later some of the girls wake up and decide that they do deserve better thats when guys like you will have a chance to win the girl that the want and they will want to settle down with guys like you the other guys are just a phase, be patient and dont change your ways always be true to who you are.
2007-06-28 18:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i can tell you one thing for sure, i hang with people and date people who aren't like you...who don't make assumptions and who don't put everything into generalizations all the time...think about it....you're te one being bitter, in fact, that's the exact opposite thing that decent girls look for....i thin kyou're just being all crab*** and bitter because you didn't get what you want... i hate to break it to you, but not every girl is like that, there are more out there, it's just a matter of finding them. I thinkyou need to wake up and smeel the roses, realize right from wrong and clean your slate.....look at the good in life and not the bad...the glass is half full buddy
2007-06-26 13:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by simplebutsweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember an answer previously that seemed to cover it well. Girls are suspisious of these "goodie goodie" types cause they are thinking "hmm what is he hiding".
Still females are dumb when it comes to these things, being lead by their heart so to speak without opening their eyes once to notice that they have 2 black eyes, she has lost all her friends and she is all alone with him.
If she doesnt listen to you, then hope that she someday works out the folley in her ways. Just be honest with her 98% (being honest and telling her every deep and dark secret is a bit of a stretch). If at the end of the day she just goes back just cross her off, she is clearly not worth your effort!
2007-06-26 13:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a blanket statement, not all women want mean and uncaring men, some of of do appreciate a nice and caring guy. I think it has a lot to do with self-esteem and knowing what you deserve. I don't even think it's an age thing, i think some older women do it too, you have to know that the nice guy is worth giving a chance.
2007-06-26 13:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by smiley4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always had a theory about this, which is as follows:
Some women think they can change a bad boy. What they see is what they get, but they think their love will be what turns him around.
But they view nice guys with suspicion. They are always waiting around for the other shoe to drop. Wondering what the "jerk" trigger is.
So, as irrational as it seems, a relationship with a jerk breeds hope, while a relationship with a nice guy breeds fear.
2007-06-26 13:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by JillyJ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it weird though? I try and stay away from the jerks and parolees though. If I find out that they are like that I back off. I think that girls like that, my bff for instance, like jerks because it makes them get attention from everyone else and it's something that they know they can never truly have.
2007-06-26 13:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by germanalibaba92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the women who like guys who are into t drugs. etc.. they are just lost women who dont know what they want in life. they are pathetic. because women always realize what the type of guy she likes. and theres no doubt about that.
2007-06-26 13:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by lkolka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, that's a huge generalization that you're making. It sounds like you're just bitter because you haven't been in a good relationship.
2007-06-26 13:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by Rara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think thats true. i wouldnt like those type of guys! i like people that actually HAVE A MIND, or HAVE A HEART
2007-06-26 13:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋