Well... me and my girlfriend were dating for about a year and a half... We wre the highschool sweethearts, the perfect couple, you know that one... I am 18 she is 16... So my parents are moving to Arizona, and before she didn't want me to go... Said she didn't know what she could do without me... She use to make promises about marrying, I asked to marry her, we were SO in love... Didn't check out girls or guys... About 2 weeks ago we were fighting a lot about dumb things... So we went on space... Still going out but spaced... Then a week later we split because I find out she liked some guy at work who was "just a friend." I could of trusted her more, i was protective and jelous, same with her... Recently though I've broken down ALOT... Can't eat, I keep finding out more stuff... they are now dating, been hanging out every day... Love each other... Shes become like her mom no offence... But I feel so shitty and let down... They've done everything too, what do I do...
2007-06-26 13:38:26 · 13 answers · asked by bkxoshua 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gets better, he added me to msn, acting all nice, so i did the same, he told me he makes her forget about things, hes fun to be around, hes 20... hes funny, hes hott to my ex... Im so upset I meant everything I said to her...
2007-06-26 13:40:26 · update #1
This an answer from me(freya) and my bff(tara)
Freya:what is the point of loving someone who doesnt love you back???
Tara:Yeah, it may be hard but you should try to get past it
Freya: just because she found sum one new doesnt mean your life ends now, regardless if it seems it or not.
Tara:Hmm, I think it's not worth beating yourself up about. Your only 18, I'm sure there is still someone out there that's right for you.
Freya:him and her are perfect for eachother.....they are both inconsiderate jerks.
Tara:besides, you know what they say, there are plenty of other cheetos in the bag...or something along those lines...maybe fishsticks in a long john's meal? idk
2007-06-26 13:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by gf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As much as it hurts, sweetie, you need to move on. You live far apart. You are 18 and soon are about to embark on an adult life that should involve college and other adult things. Don't try to fill the void with another girl, but do get involved in some activities, definitely take classes, and meet some new people. Do not dwell on what she is or isn't doing with this guy. You have no control over this. She has made the choice to move on, and you have to do the same in your own way. If it has been only two weeks since you two officially broke up, she has probably had her sights on him for some time. Some girls (especially young girls) just cannot be alone. They need to be in relationships. Sometimes the high school love and romance is just a nice phase for growing up. Hold onto the good memories and take those with you.
2007-06-26 20:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on.
It will be really hard, but I think thats what you should do.
And just don't even talk to her boyfriend anymore, I mean stay nice to her you know, say "hi" to her, maybe call her once in a while to see how she is[unless whenever you call her she brags about her boyfriend to make you jealous]. But at the same disassociate yourself from her, don't really talk about her, or ask people about her, so then hopefully you'll stop finding out stuff about her and her boyfriend.
But just realize she's not in your life like how she used to be.
Move on, it's for the best.
And realize there is someone else out there.
There's lots of people out there for you!
So go look and enjoy life!
good luck.
=]
2007-06-26 20:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by clearlyhere. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling she still loves you and she's trying to get you jealous, and its working! If he added you on MSN, she's obviously been talking about you (she still thinks of you) My advice? Don't do anything. Just wait it out. Both of you need more space to cool down. You can't make a decision like this so fast. Meanwhile, try to forget about it...go to Burger King and try the Chicken Fries. Lol. Hope things gets better!
2007-06-26 20:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's twenty that's insane I'm sorry you need to go and find a much better girlfriend than her she is pretty young too so she may not be as wise as you would be find someone who is about the same age and someone you know longer and then start dating again it'll be hard at first but it shall pass i promise. best of luck!
2007-06-26 20:44:09 · answer #5 · answered by Babycakes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go out and try to find someone and you may feel the same way about her like the other girl if doesn't work keep trying. you'll find the right girl
2007-06-26 20:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to deal with the fact that you broke up with her. If you loved her this much that was very stupid
2007-06-26 20:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry, if you need someone to talk to you can talk to me. i honestly don't know where you can go from here, but i would just move on and try to forget about it.
2007-06-26 20:43:31 · answer #8 · answered by blue-a-touille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously wants to move on and so should you. You should Not be torturing yourself like you are. THIS IS WRONG AND YOU SHOULD REALIZE THAT SHE'S NOT THE ONE FOR YOU. YOU NEED TO GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND HAVE FUN!!! YOU NEED TO RELAX AND BE FREE, CUZ YOU ARE!! IM ME, WHENEVER. K? TAKE CARE
2007-06-26 20:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Lil love lady ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her how u feel. she might breck-up with the other guy. who knows? just try telling her and she might understand u.
2007-06-26 20:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋