2007-06-26 13:30:57 · 17 answers · asked by jennyg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It depends on how much damage she did to you. If it affected your entire life and having her around is going to bring back bad memories that haunt you or upset you, or her behaviour is upsetting to you then no dont allow her to live with you.
However if you have been able to get past all that and she is not an abusive or demanding person then consider it. Just make sure before she moves in you both agree to some boundaries and rules so there is no head butting going on.
2007-06-26 13:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its important that if you have a family of your own now that she does not cause conflict in YOUR family by being in your home. If you even for one second think that she may, you need to lay down the law and set limitations before she even steps foot into your house. I let my brother live with my husband and me and our 1 year old and it caused a lot of issues between my husband and I. I would put a time limit on her stay if you do let her, but maybe this could e a chance for you and your mom to reconnect...pray about it and see hat happens! Good luck!!!
2007-06-26 14:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by Aubrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is....do you want your mother out on the street, with no home, no place to lay her head. I believe that she provided you a roof over your head and food for your belly. Sometimes, even with your parents you have to be the mature one in the matter.
2007-06-26 13:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
She should be mature enough to afford some place to stay until she finds another loser. If you let her in she will treat you like a mug. It is better to practice tough love than than be used.
2007-06-26 13:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by RomeoMike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be hard to, but yes, you should. The woman gave birth to you and raised you. Even if she didn't do a good job, she obviously trusts you enough to take her in. Be the bigger person and forgive. She probably really needs you now.
2007-06-26 13:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by christine_ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hate is a sturdy emotion. that's ok to not in user-friendly terms like the issues he does, yet to hate him, that's a distinctive tale. it style of feels like he's gentle the place he's and your mom desires to grant him a date to get out. She shouldn't enable him on your abode especially whilst he's decrease than the effect of alcohol. you do not would desire to be around that. that's stupid to p.c.. on him for his making a song and what he eats, you're purely searching for issues to be propose approximately. do not slump that low. you may inform your mom which you do not locate it perfect that he's decrease than the effect of alcohol and acts like he's doing medications. inform him you do not prefer to be around that. do not communicate approximately his behavior which you do in contrast to as that quite would not rely.
2017-01-23 05:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by loverde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just put some ground rules down and if she can't deal with them well she must find another place but at least you tried. Try talking with her hun and good luck.
2007-06-26 13:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. She made the wrong choice and needs help now. Go ahead and be the bigger person and help her.
2007-06-26 14:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you allow her in, it would take an eviction notice to get her out. I wouldn't do it, but I never had that problem. I'm so sorry she did that to you.
Hugs...
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2007-06-26 13:36:56 · answer #9 · answered by OhWhatCanIDo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL I'd put her in a nursing home instead.
2007-06-26 13:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by SOS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋