my boyfriend hadnt drank in a while and now he has started and theres thing that really bug me that i found out about him while he drank.like he texted his ex-girlfriend and i guess she visted him while he was drunk? should i be afraid? whatt shouldd i dooo? please help
2007-06-26 13:29:49 · 6 answers · asked by kkkatiie; 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is not the best of situations. You have decide what you are willing to put up with and what you are comfortable with. maybe he just needed an ego burst and that is why he texted her - who knows. But if this is the way he is going to be you can either put your big girl panties on and deal with it or walk away.
2007-06-26 13:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by aitkenpatty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole " I drank too much" thing is no excuse. It just shows you something about how irresponsible he is. He shouldn't even have her number in his phone anymore if it really is over. He shouldn't be contacting her even if they were friend cause that means he doesn't take your relationship seriously. I think you should ask him to change his number and if ever you find out about them contacting or seeing eachother then leave him. Hes a cheater. Oh and use condoms cause you never know if he is a liar.
2007-06-26 20:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by The thinker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and be direct. Tell him he can not meet up with his ex-girlfriend and expect that to be okay with you. He must either honor your reasonable request for mutual exclusivity or you must move on, because this is clearly a man who will never be able to be faithful to you. Mutual exclusivity is what makes a couple a couple; without that, they are just having an affair.
2007-06-26 20:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE WAS DRUNK! People do really, REALLY stupid things while they're drunk. You can try to figure out, but don't get too involved.
2007-06-26 20:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by Yeknomboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to you boyfriend and tell him that you don't feel comfortable and try to work out a compromise
2007-06-26 20:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, NO other choice. He cheated and is an alcoholic.
2007-06-26 20:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋