I'm pretty sure my supervisor is attracted to me and is interested but I don't know if I should pursue him. I know he won't ask me out because it's against the rules for him to try anything and I know he doesn't know that I'm interested in him so he'd be risking a lot if he made a pass because he doesn't know if I would report him. We're both young, he's 24 and I'm 20 but I'm kind of shy so I don't know how to approach him about this. Should I just forget about him or should I just say something that would suggest I like him or maybe get a little flirtly, in a subtle way? What can I say to show him that I'm interested without being obvious? And what can I do to test if he is interested in me?
2007-06-26 13:25:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BTW, this is a TEMP job. I don't plan on staying there long.
2007-06-26 13:33:09 · update #1
agreed. If you're really that interested in him, find a new job.
you don't want to work with your significant other for a million reasons.
I started dating my current boyfriend while we were working together, almost immediately I found a new job and we're still together. However, mine is the only happy-ending I've ever encountered where at-work rerlationships are concerned.
2007-06-26 13:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by saya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not you pursue him depends directly on how seriously you take you job....
If you're workin somewhere flippin burgers and you can just go find another job just like the one you've got, I'd say go for him!!!
If you have a good job and it's not so likely that you could just go replace it without any worry, I'd say stay away!!!!
Hard to answer this one without more info!
Good Luck!
2007-06-26 20:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by crankyissues 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you SURE, like 100% positive that he's interested in you? If so, I would say maybe, get a little flirty, in a subtle way. So that way, he'll get an idea, but you're not going directly like... asking him out or anything. But if you're not entirely sure, I would say forget about it, or wait till it becomes more clear. =]
2007-06-26 20:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by i like turtles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are going to a certain place (bar, restaurant, etc) and ask if he's ever been there. Pretend you've never gone to this place before. See what comes out of the conversation. That will tell you a lot about the situation.
2007-06-26 20:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Nitro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are going to have to find work somewhere else because you would like to try dating him but office romances are not kosher in your book.
He will work something out if he wants to make it happen. Or if he never liked you he will just say Bye, then you can stay and make his life miserable.
2007-06-26 20:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by RomeoMike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how serious you are about the job. if its your career, then dont. if its just a temp job, then i say say pursue the romance because this may be something you dont want to miss out on.
2007-06-26 20:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont B so nervous, ask him questions & if he decides if he wants 2 act funny then you know that he isnt the type of person 4 u.
just B normal & ask questions...
2007-06-26 20:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by NICOLE22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you then he probably would eventually show his feelings in the long run.
However you probably should not jeoprodize your work position.
2007-06-26 20:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes the man Let him make the move.. But hes your boss if you ever get in a big fight you lose your job..
2007-06-26 20:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by kazapim 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay away from him because he is a serious risk to your job
2007-06-26 20:29:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋