what do they like?

Question

do the guys out there like girls who are loud or quite, have zits or not or a little bit. long or short/med. hair, nice or mean, shy or not. the list could go on what do you like in a girl? wich one above do you like? i would like to know.

Answer 1

I just like girls who are sweet, compassionate, sincere, and don't lie. I don't think she would have to be a perfect 10. It's a combination of looks and personality. But finding the right combination is difficult.

Answer 2

I think the simplest thing is to start off a very complicated response with a truth that is quite universal:

Every single person has their own "thing" they like about someone. So these questions that aim at finding a specific solution to a very broad and complicated question like yours never truly hit the nail on the head with the responses it gets.

I would say be safe and aim for the generalities:

men like women who look nice. I dont mean you have to be America's Top Model, but at least look feminine and you know, like you have some style, whatever it is. It could be the grunge thing, gothic, barbie girl, uh...whatever. As long as it shows through that you are willing to represent yourself this way then people see that as your true you.

Men like smart women. You dont have to beEinstein or know a lot of facts; people often think that "smart" people must know a lot of stuff. Wrong. In my definition of smart, and as defining beautiful, everyone has their own definition. Smart to me is a person that learns and knows how to use knowledge she/he learned to solve the problem at hand. There are other things, but that isnt the question.

Men like confident women. I dont think we like women that hate on each other or on other people. Hate usually comes from a sense of insecurity, which everyone has, but some people are more aware of how insecurities might make you act in a way you might not like.

As you will see, everyone here has their own "ideal" woman.

So, you must realize that some people are going to like you and some arent. If the guy you like doesnt like you, big deal, there are tons of men out there to pick from. You have to deal well with rejection, without tolerating abuse or maltreatment.

In addition, all my advice is biased by my own preferences. By no means is my answer reflecting reality and truth more than any other one here.

Answer 3

It doesn't matter if the girl is loud,quiet,has zits,even 1 eye,its the person themselves that attracts men to girls.
Personality can be found even in quiet girls,its the other person who will see what they personally like in that person.
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

Answer 4

What do guys like?
In a girlfriend? A guy friend? A one night stand? A pet?
I think guys like someone they can hang with. (I've "hung" with lots of guys)
If you listen to them, they talk about girls like this:
there are "high maintenance" girls. (Girls that look good, but are very demanding; spoiled even) There are girls who are "nice" (meaning they are a good package overall. And then there are other types, such as nags, bitches, hotties, cuties, etc.
Also, what guys like depends on the kind of guy they are.
(some guys are really shallow, and like high maintenance girls: for they, too are shallow)
Etc.

Answer 5

I like a girl who is nice and cares about things other then makeup and shoes. I don't care about any of the other things, just as long as they are a person I can trust.

Answer 6

it all depends on the guy, just like how it all depends on the girl.
i personally like loud girls, w/o zits with long or medium long hair, nice but funny, and not shy. i like a girls who's kinda like me, and that i can make fun of without her feeling like she cant make fun of me and not feeling like **** after.

Answer 7

Well, from my experience, it seems there are few who don't care.

Most only seem to go for looks. If there were more out there not trying to impresss each other, then they would find someone right for them and stick with them.

Answer 8

men like all girls