2007-06-26 10:44:59 · 8 answers · asked by lilgal alamoghetto 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
It's very difficult these days with how our world is. Just let her know certain "rules" as they happen, and always set a good example for her. Like at the dinner table, no elbows on the table, cross your feet, ask things to be passed to you, etc. In public, be polite to strangers, things like that. I wish you the best in this difficult task; sometimes people, and even children, can be stubborn.
2007-06-26 10:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by Angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You start when the 11 year old is a 3 year old. If a child grows up with manners as a part of life, it is better than waiting til they are pre-teens and then trying to teach them manners.
2007-06-26 13:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They still have classes for this. I would suggest sending her to a class. However, make sure that it's a class that doesn't teach her to be a floor mat at the same time.
2007-06-26 11:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by starrrrgazer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be clear with what you expect from her in different situations. Practice at home, but don't freak if she makes a little mistake - like using the wrong fork. Develop an unspoken "signal" (like you rubbing your nose) to use in public when you see her miss - like not saying "please" or "thank you." That won't embarass her in public.
That said, kids learn what they see. Make sure you exhibit the behaviors you want her to learn!
2007-06-26 12:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by zippythejessi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You teach best by doing it yourself and letting them see positive results. My daughter just turned 12. Good luck they are stubborn little burgers.
2007-06-26 10:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by Shashay 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
By example. And by establishing and sticking to standards, no matter what "other families" do or do not do.
2007-06-26 11:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you lead by example. That's what my mom and her mom and her mom did. Good luck!
2007-06-26 11:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by Julia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont let her watch MTV, and surround her with things of ellegance and art.
2007-06-26 10:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by Elisheva 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋