This guy didn't hurt me physically but emotionally he did.
2007-06-26 10:41:18 · 24 answers · asked by beachgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was the one that broke up with him. He pulled too many stunts and i had had enough of being affected that way i was being affected. I can never trust him again. And right after I dumped him I realized something that he had done before we broke up that really hurt me. I won't go into detail since the details don't matter. Poitn is, when I noticed this, it caused me to experience a lot of hurt emotionally. It is something I will never get over or at least not for a long time.
2007-06-27 16:50:36 · update #1
Revenge isn't worth it. What goes around comes back around 10 fold. He will get his. You need to let it go because the situation won't end, and you may get hurt worse. Just move on. Know he is a piece of **** and that he doesn't deserve you. Keep your head up girl
2007-06-26 10:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could ruin him utterly.
Start by reporting him to credit agencies or at the very least sending in every credit card application you can find (addressed to him of course, we're not talking about identity theft here), which sends out a red flag to the credit agencies.
Post his number and address on the Craigslist M4M section, also consider the M4T section.
Grab one of those skanky newspapers that advertise for strippers andhookers and look in the back. There are bound to be ads for pornography, some of it fairly raunchy. Order some and have it sent to him at his work and home addresses. Like a virus, his name will spread to every raunchy pornographer in the world and his mailbox will be filled with this stuff.
He will lose his reputation and maybe his job. Women will scorn him (and men too if you make sure that there is a decent amount of sadomassochistic male on male stuff in there).
With no credit and no job, he will be reduced to living on the street in a cardboard box within six months.
Never tell him it was you.
2007-06-26 10:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by Izzy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy hurts you emotionally it can be a long time before you can trust them again ..I know I am just going through this now ...Start by finding your friendship again try and get back to where you were when you first met.
If he doesnt want to prove to you his love and that he is trustable then dont bother ...He has to do most of the work ...along as you dont put up the walls ......If after a couple of months he hasnt let it go!!!
2007-06-26 10:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by popstar2b2002 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The payback will come one day when he see's how beautiful you are when you are really in love. Surround yourself with things and people that make you smile and revenge will be yours. Get busy now, there is a lot of work to be done.
2007-06-26 10:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Candi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forgive him. I know it sounds crazy, but it will help you get past it much faster because you will not constantly be thinking about it. But if revenge is really what you are out for and can live with yourself, go for what he holds dear to him. Maybe speak to a girl he is seeing and telling her his bad points. You will just have to get to what he cares about to hurt him, but more than likely you are just wasting your time on it.
2007-06-26 10:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a box of eggs and throw them at his car, then buy a bazooka and blow his tree house down. After that, get a helicopter and when he goes out of the house dump honey from atop the helicopter and let the bees out. Then when the bees are gone throw him on the biggest ant pile. If that dosen't work, take away his favorite thing and put it on ebay for auction. and then you...
2007-06-26 10:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't. Most guys don't hurt emotionally the same way women do. They deal with things differently, and there is really nothing you can do but deal with yourself.
2007-06-26 10:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Live a good,happy, healthy life. It's the best revenge.
And why do you feel you have to get back at him? Why the need to be vindictive? I really want to know.
2007-06-26 10:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by Bill Melater 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around, and he will get his taste of his own medicine from someone else you just need to sit back and pop some pop corn!
2007-06-26 10:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by qteepatutee08 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't. this guy hurt you, and it happens to everyone. revenge is not the answer! you will just feel like crap. the best way to deal with this guy is to treat him with kindness and respect, leave him thinking, "why did i hurt her? she is so forgiving, why did i give her up?" then get another guy and forget about him.
2007-06-26 10:46:58 · answer #10 · answered by i live to laugh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋