Why do people say GOD made me Straight or Gay? What if you were born?

Question

Infertile, Autistic, Blind, retarted..

GOD makes human beings, DNA, genetics are the cause for everything else.

People cannot choose to see if they were born blind but sexuality is a choice in all respects, you can choose never to have sex if you wish, you can choose to be married and stay faithful or choose to commit adultery, or choose to engage in all sorts of sexual practices, sexuality is a choice because we all have a choice what to do or what not to do with sexuality.

I don't mean to sound fross here but if you are born gay as some say that means you feel a attraction to your own sex that being said the act of homosexuality does not go hand in hand just as male and female attraction does not go hand in hand with sexual acts without becoming to explicit a attraction to a person does not have to become sexually physical we choose to act on it or not to act on it.

This is the rub is with GAYS and CHRISTIANS not that they have the attraction but how they wish to act on.

Answer 1

My question to you is: why the frack does it matter so much to you? Don't you have enough to focus on in your own life?

In your eyes it's okay to be gay as long as I don't do anything with it. Such wonderful compassion. In your eyes I should live a solitary, loveless life, rather than settle down with my partner and have a satisfying, enriching family life? If the tables were turned how happily would you turn your back not only on the gender to which you are attracted, but to the very spouse that you love so deeply?

Why is it that Xtians are so obsessed with homosexuality? If you're not gay: fine! Don't have gay sex! It really is that easy!

But to apply the insides of your mind as if they are the insides of my mind is, quite frankly, spiritual rape.

Please leave your thoughts and beliefs inside your own head where they belong. Take care of your side of the street. Take care of the plank in your own eye before you think you need to help someone else with the splinter in his.

Answer 2

The rub between LGBTs and Christians along with a few other faiths, is that we are blamed for the way we've been wired, we're treated like lower beings by members of the faiths purely because we were born different. We're treated like we need to be cured of something that will never change and is completely natural.

There's a saying, the only unnatural act of sex, is not to have any. So, with that in mind, why should we refrain from enjoying sex and all its wonders just because some people get squemish. Sex is a biological drive, it helps us form attachments, as well as being useful for procreation.

So long as it's between consenting adults, it's none of your or anyone's damn business what we get up to in bed, and you have no right to judge us.

Answer 3

I dont think its a choice to tbe gay or not. When we're in the womb we are just human, not male or female. We become that way when our DNA code triggers certain hormones to be released at certain times during our developement. Our develoment into a gender is not always perfect and sometimes people are born with both male and female traits like a strong desire fore men in a male or the intense desire to have a sex change to become female. To some degree we are all female and male at the same time each of us just have proportions of each. In the end god didn't make a mistake because god had nothing to do with it. Likewise its not a conscience decision the a person can make either. Our body chemistry is what it is and we can either be who we are or try it supress it and live unhappy.

Answer 4

So according to you only heterosexual people should have sex, right? You should go & read all of the sexuality information published by Dr. Alfred Kinsey & you would learn some more about human nature & why some people that like people their own sex decide to act on it and have homosexual relations.

Besides that, why do you care what people do with their own lives. Do you judge people for who they sleep with? Why? What do you get from it? The Bible does not tell you to judge, but to be kind and loving with all your brothers and sisters. You should do that

Answer 5

God doesn't make anyone in anyway. If he made people a certain way then that would take out the process of free will and replace it with divine will. He does not want mindless toys running around doing as they are programed. Its a choice and never blame God for anything. People love to have a place for blame when stuff does not go their way later on down the road.

Answer 6

People like you are the reason the majority of teenage suicides are kids who think they are homosexuals. How would you feel if you were told every breath you take and "impure" thought was a sin. People like you make the world seem like it would be a better place without religion.


Werent YOU lucky?... YOU can satisfy your sexual desire and not worry that you will go to hell for it.

Answer 7

.And God does not make anyone Gay or He would have to repent for destroying Sodom and Gomorrah.The people had rejected God and were completely bent toward evil daily. God gave them space to turn to Him but because demons had taken their minds and their bodies over there was no choice but judgement. Now God has sent His Son and He took on the sin, the punishment and the judgement upon himself so all could be freed encluding those possessed with demons.

Answer 8

I'm not sure about that. Some people say it's the devil's work.Others say "God just plays dice" with us. Some even believe in no God.But I'm still not excatly sure how to answer you're question though.

Answer 9

So you acknowledge different sexual ORIENTATIONS, but condemn certain sexual BEHAVIORS or acts, is that it? I agree that there is a difference. However, I have yet to hear a valid secular argument against homosexual behavior.

Answer 10

You can be born gay but you can also become gay. the reason I say that some people are born gay is if you look at animals, there are gay animals. How do you explain that?