My best friend is a very petite girl. Even though she is a wife with two kids, she can actually fit into little girls clothes if she wanted to. She has a lovely figure, but she is not really blessed in the chest department if you know what I mean. I see people make comments to her all the time about her not having any boobs. People she works with says things, people she is friends with...it's everywhere she goes. They usually say something jokingly and she usually makes a sly remark which is much more funny or she will pick something about them to pick on, but I know it really bothers her. I just wanted to see if anyone on here has had this happen to them a lot and what different things people have tried. To me, I just can't comprehend why people feel the need to point out something like that. It's just flat out rude!
2007-06-26 09:29:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Joking back doesn't point out that fact that it is rude. If it really bothers your friend she should say something like, "Hmm, that makes me think of a joke I heard about breasts like yours, but I was raised to have better manners than to repeat it." Or she could simply say nothing and give them a look that lets them know she isn't amused by their comment. People will get the point.
2007-06-26 09:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its a guy have her look at his crotch and say "not much there either, stubby".
And her friends are not friends if they are mean about her looks/breasts.
I got commented about the opposite, I was huge and got teased a lot. It took a while, but I learned to just laugh with them and pretend I was in on the joke with them.
Unfortunately there isn't much you can do, at least she makes sly remarks back, which is good!
2007-06-26 11:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can tell these people, "Well at least my breasts won't drop to my belly button when I get old." Or if it's a man she could say, "Well at least I can get implants if I wanted too."
2007-06-26 13:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by Coop's Wife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she should flash them...In a sign of solidarity you should as well.....flash everyone with a blinding flash of breast......
Now, Where is that chick that is so flat she has nipples on her back???
2007-06-28 06:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by elektricklad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋