Is it wrong to get pregnat at age 13? Im in love with my lover.
If so will he run away once i tell him.
2007-06-26 08:47:05 · 31 answers · asked by Taylor R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course its wrong honey..you are just 13 and in this age (teenager) you onley think of love and sex because you want to to feel that you are a women and all of that because at this age you have a changes in you sex hormones that tells you that you are not a little girle anymore you are a woman...and in your age you feeling controls you but if you let it to control you now you will be sorry for the rest of your life because your bf will not think of sharing relashionship so once you are pregnant he will leave you...so be matuse and look around you and see the girles that lost thier lives because of stupid moment....
and remember when think about pregnancy you must think of marrege coz ur child has the right to have a family that has a dad and a mum... be careful honey boys play with our feelings and once they take what they want from you they will leave you...
2007-06-26 08:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, firstly, spelling pregnant wrong twice doesn't exactly get you off to such a great start. and omg...13!?!? of course it's wrong to get pregnant at 13! unless you're morman or whatever and get married at 12. but seriously, most people get their first kiss at 13, forget have children. you'd be young enough to be your child's sister! that's crazy! and if you say you love someone at the age of 13 then you must not know what true love it. i understand that you kids' hormones are probably going crazy just getting through puberty but you need to think about your future. you're in like what, 7th grade?
i don't want to sound mean or like i'm yelling at you but if you had a baby at 13 your "lover" probably couldn't take it and you'd be left alone with your baby. wait a few years with this guy and see if he is the one. and if so wait some more! at least until college! fool around all you want i'm not your parents but use protection and don't get pregant!
2007-06-26 09:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby at your age is not a good thing...you don't eve know what you want at that age....running away isn't an answer and you don't even know what love is at that age..you have your whole life ahead of you..why would you flush it down the toilet at this age....how would you support a baby...you probably cant take care of yourself...I wouldn't do that if I where you and sex shouldn't be something your doing at that age either... ask for some advise from older ppl in your life you can help you realize it.
2007-06-26 08:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by ShyAngel444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong you're a kid wanting to have a kid, you shouldn't even be having sex, Can you support this child? I'm pretty sure you're not even in High School yet, be patient, enjoy your teenage years, have fun with your friends and your lover without all the responsibilities a baby brings along! I'm 20 yrs. old and I just had a baby, my baby's daddy and I are together and its still hard for us, a baby is A LOT of responsibility we don't get to do what we use to do with our friends back in the day or at least enjoy it as much, because we're always thinkin of our son!
2007-06-26 09:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Betty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely YES, he will. But tell your parents first, so that they can make sure you don't have anything because a STD is worst. Maybe you and your parents don't believe in abortions but that's what I think you should do. Love can wait because you are stopping your life, his, both of y'all parents, and a baby deserves better than what a 13 year old can offer. Find something to do with your time.Sex isn't something you need to be getting involved in sweetheart. Stop right now and tell your parents or even write them a letter if you can't talk to them. GOOD LUCK!!!! I WISH YOU THE BEST IN LIFE AND GIVE YOURSELF TIME TO GROW
2007-06-26 08:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very wrong to be pregnant.....But if your family loves you they should support you. How old is this "lover"? I am sorry you got pregnant at such a young age, but my cousin was 13 when she got pregnant her first time. It has been very hard on her. She couldn't finish school and when she tried, her son then started calling her mom "mommy" You really should have thought about the consequences of this before doing it
2007-06-26 08:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Your body isn't fully developed yet, nor your mind. Having a baby when your 13 is a horriable idea only because your not truly ready for the hardship that would bring you. I'm not even ready for that and I'm almost 10 years older than you.
2007-06-26 08:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by hollywoodundeadluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong being pregnant at 13. We all make big mistakes but we learn from them. You should of waited till your were older or atleast have it with someone you knew really loved you. You need to tell your parents.
2007-06-26 08:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have wanted to be pregnant at 13. Heck, it was hard enough at 28. How will you get to doctors appointments? Your bike? A "lover" at 13...it just sounds silly. Ask you're Mom if you can go to counseling. You need help. Good luck.
2007-06-26 08:57:00 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a child that young is dangerous and sometimes deadly. 13 is young and how do you know that you are in love. You probably havent dated more then one or two guys.
2007-06-26 08:50:58 · answer #10 · answered by ducky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋