i am just wondering because i like this boy and people keep tellin me to play hard to get and this boy will like me but i liked him eva since kindergarten!
2007-06-26 08:17:38 · 31 answers · asked by wena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont play games...thats silly...he probably has no clue you like him because most typical guys dont notice those things. Ask him out to a movie or something more casual like the beach or fair or something. Hang out with him and through subtle hints...Whats the worst thing that can happen him saying no>?
2007-06-26 08:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by JesseNevaehsMommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old adage playing hard to get is the most stupidest idea that ever came off the assembly line. Truth and honesty builds a relationship as well as being both believers in Yeshua/Jesus.
Mazal Tov
2007-06-26 15:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by dcwmission 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sweet and a little flirtacious when you are around him, but also don't pay all your attention to him (talk to other men when he can see you) and when he seems interested, act mildly interested in return (otherwise he'll think you aren't interested at all) but then don't spend too much time with him before leaving/doing something else.
This is no guarantee he'll want to date though. If this doesn't work, consider just asking him out yourself. I think most men like it when girls do some of the work for dating.
2007-06-26 15:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by sci55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard to get means not following him like a puppy everywhere he goes, drooling on him and hanging around his waist and neck for all to see that you are together, playing it cool when it comes to him asking you out , never call him let him call you, never let him know that he is your one and only and that you will just die if he leaves you. Things like that.
Make sure that you find what your gifts are and build on them. Guys like girls that are not easy although they may not show it they really do not respect those that jump into the sack with them. Keep from sex till marriage and none of those things that comes with it will creep up to haunt you and your future spouse.
2007-06-26 15:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by Stormchaser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make eye contact with him and smile, say hello when you pass. Act friendly and just don't appear to be too anxious. Playing hard to get too much can put you right out of the playing field. Good luck.
2007-06-26 15:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just ignore him half of the time and act sweet the other half of the time. Make him work for your affection.
You sound real young though, and this boy might not even be interested in girls yet. You can't MAKE someone like you no matter what....
2007-06-26 15:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be is to be straight forward and yourself but not too pushy. Ask him out and see if he says yes. Some guys would rather the girl make the first move because they do not know if they like them. or if you do not want to ask him out make a few hints in his direction that you would like to go out with him and if he likes you back then he will ask you out.
2007-06-26 15:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Janey from Louisiana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um does he even like you back? Be careful playing the hard to get person because it might make you look like a b__ instead.
2007-06-26 15:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by Lynnae_1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I tell you how....you don't follow what other people say when it comes to who you like. If you like the boy just tell him 'I like you what you gonna do about it?'
You do what you want to do to get him....
But if you really must know...to play hard to get he has to flirt with you and all you do is smile and say I ain't like that and show through your actions he has to work to get you
2007-06-26 15:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Claudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your gonna call him then dont
Act like he aint all that
Flirt with him then when he tries to flirt with you dont
Give him mixed messages
Guys love bad girls (a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed)
2007-06-26 15:21:43 · answer #10 · answered by melaniejean862209 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋