am i jst a piece of meat?!?!?!?

Question

boys always talk about how they like me .... personally i fink its my big bust:S i giv them a chance and they always ruin fings and i feel lyk most of the tym im jst a piece of armcandy for them to brag to thier frends about??? its startin to hurt me and i feel im about to giv up on boys...y cnt a boy jst giv me a chance for my personality and not my body or looks?? afta they c past the looks i feel they gt bored when they no dey rnt gtin nufin off me unles ther interested in ME nt my assets....will ne1 ever want me for ME?

Answer 1

Come on babe, really you should be proud if you are cute as you say you are. On the other hand im sure you would like that one guy to sweep you off your feet. Give it some time, and dont let in on the guys anymore. Make them want you, tease them....but dont tease too much. Someone will bite, and make them wait. That way in the long run if you make them wait, they will understand if they truly like you. Remember dont wait too long, but just to the point where you know they like you for you. If they dont, then hey you didnt get hurt right? GL hope you find that guy

Answer 2

You don't like what you're catching? Change the bait.
If you have a big bust, and nothing else, they will get bored. Especially, if you are too friendly. Boys assume that big-chested girls are easy--just because they can get a boy's attention, and feel sexier thn their flat-chested sisters.
If you are flirting and acting "available" and then not giving it up, then you are a "tease."If you ARE giving it up, you ARE a piece of meat, but you don't have to be.
Develop YOU-like your spelling, your reading level, your math skills, your artistic ability-something that will last your whole life. Trust me, your big boobs will not always be so wonderful. At some point, you will be able to tuck them in your pants. Not attractive.
Don't give up on boys or yourself. Just ignore them a while. Make them work to get to know you. Spend your time learning, writing, working part-time, getting in theater, or flying an airplane. Go the the gym. A lot.
Get to know the REST of you, not just what idiot boys are interested in.

Answer 3

I take it by your abuse of the English language, you are school age? If so, then yes, for the next 5-10 years, you are just something to try and get into bed. Boys have no interest in relationship, we don't see the purpose of them at that age, and you are banging your head against a brick wall if you think you can buck the system and find one who is less interested in your body than your personality. The only hope you have is to date all the ugly, spotty, fat lads, who are too insecure about themselves to be plotting to get in your knickers.

The best thing is to not even think about relationships until you leave school, and even then, you have to step carefully, as must young men are still looking for notches on the bed post.

Answer 4

first of all i had to read this about 3x b4 i actually new what you were talkin about. but some guys are like that and will get a girl cuz she is hot and looks good infront of his friends they kinda use girls like a trophy and thats jacked up in so many ways. Personally i would never do that cuz if i dont like the personality i wont date you.Yes you will eventually find someone that will like you for you and not your looks. But what you need to do is find a some what quiet kind of guy. Those are always the kind that will be good to you and not just use you to look good to his friends. too bad i dont know you cuz you sound like a pretty girl and a nice one too. i hope this helps you.

Answer 5

Poor, poor Zoe. Hey kid: at least you have a leg up on the rest. Don't let some fool claim you as his exclusive property until you've thoroughly grown up, learned to spell and use proper grammar. If I were to judge you by what you wrote here, I'd have to say all that would appeal to me would be your bust - 'cause as a person with an informed mind, you're proving to be a bust! C'mon, you're capable of better. Let's see you do it!

Answer 6

I agree with the above answers that you need to dump the txtspk.

But I feel really sorry for your situation. You aren't a piece of meat or arm candy. The internet is a great place for you to express yourself where no one knows what you look like

Answer 7

Be patient and the guy for you will come. It took me 6 years of knowing the guy till we realized that we wanted to be together and we are getting married in the next year :-) so give it time the good guys are always worth the wait

Answer 8

I use to feel like you, like I was just a doll people will play with. any guy who was interested in me I will find later on that he had a girlfriend or two...

Give it time and you will find someone great. in the mean time just get some hobby's and play hard to get until you know they are genuine.

I don't want to be horrible but maybe sorting out your spelling and acting more growing will help.

Answer 9

i think you're going to the wrong places or with the wrong people.
your opening line 'boys always talk about how they like me', sounds very immature. (i often see groups of girls and boys hanging around on street corners.) that what boys do. if you want someone to take you seriously you don't give them a chance, thay have to prove they're mature.
if you are as young as you sound wait a bit. or go for someone a bit older.

Answer 10

Grl Plz, don't cheapen urself with those thoughts. And, most importantly don't settle. Eventually u'll find Mr. Right instead of Mr. In the mean time.