Can a TRUE christian get a divorce?

Question

and still be right with the Lord?

Answer 1

yes, God knew we were hard headed so he permitted it.

Answer 2

Jesus died to pay the penalty for "all" sins. You can still be divorced and be right with the Lord.
The Bible gives only two reasons in which divorce is permitted: the first is in the case of abandonment of a Christian by an unbelieving spouse (1 Corinthians 7:15), and the second is if one partner is involved in a lifestyle of infidelity (Matthew 5:32). Although God allows it in these circumstances, He has never been an endorser of divorce. It should be assumed that two Bible-believing Christians will not mutually agree to divorce, but should practice the forgiveness and love that God freely gives us. “'For I hate divorce!' says the Lord, the God of Israel...” (Malachi 2:16).

Answer 3

I like to see this kind of question. The answers amply illustrate the anomalies of 'religion'.
Most of the answers turn to the Bible, particularly the Old Testament, for support.............yet overlook the fact that the O.T. was addressed to a race of male polygamists.
They also overlook the fact that monogamous marriage is not a monopoly of Christians.
Marriage is by mutual promise. If couples do not wish to honour their vows after considering all the effects divorce may have on others (eg children) then they should be honest about their responsibilities and face up to whatever liabilities they may incur. Personally I feel they should pay back all the income tax relief and other benefits...better still tax married couples the same as singles...allow relief for children producers regardless.

Answer 4

YES, but only

God, the Originator of marriage, designed it to be a permanent union. But is there any Scriptural reason for a person to divorce his or her mate, and one that would allow for the possibility of remarrying? Jesus addressed this matter by declaring: “I say to you that whoever divorces his wife, except on the ground of fornication, and marries another commits adultery.” (Matthew 19:9) Sexual infidelity by a mate is the only ground for a divorce that will allow the innocent mate to remarry, or the death of the husband or the wife..

In addition, the Bible’s words at 1 Corinthians 7:10-16, while encouraging marriage mates to stay together, allow for separation. Some, after trying very hard to preserve their marriage, feel they have no choice but to separate. What can be acceptable Scriptural grounds for such a step?

One is willful nonsupport. When getting married, a husband assumes the responsibility of providing for his wife and children. The man who willfully fails to provide the material necessities of life “has disowned the faith and is worse than a person without faith.” (1 Timothy 5:8) So separation is possible.

Another is extreme physical abuse. So then, if a mate physically abuses his wife, the victim may separate. (Galatians 5:19-21; Titus 1:7) “Anyone loving violence [God’s] soul certainly hates.” Psalm 11:5.

Another ground for separation is the absolute endangerment of a believer’s spirituality, one’s relationship with God. When a mate’s opposition, perhaps including physical restraint, has made it impossible to pursue true worship and has imperiled the believer’s spirituality, then some believers have found it necessary to separate. .

However, if divorce is pursued under such circumstances, one would not be free to enter a new marriage. According to the Bible, the only legitimate ground for divorce that permits remarriage is adultery or “fornication.” Matthew 5:32.

The Bible allows only one reason for getting a divorce that frees a person to remarry, and that is fornication (Greek, porneia, gross sexual immorality). If fornication is committed, then the innocent mate may decide whether to get a divorce or not. Matthew 5:32.

After telling the Pharisees that the Mosaic concession of divorcing their wives was not the arrangement that had prevailed “from the beginning,” Jesus said: “I say to you that whoever divorces his wife, except on the ground of fornication, and marries another commits adultery.” (Mt 19:8, 9)


Marriage involves two people with differing personalities learning to develop common interests and working together toward common goals. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, not a casual agreement that can be lightly abandoned. In many countries, divorce is not difficult to obtain, but in the eyes of a Christian, the marriage relationship is sacred. It is ended only for a very serious reason. (Matt. 19:9) Christian spouses can avail themselves of wise counsel from the Bible, support from fellow Christians, and a close, prayerful relationship with God. A successful marriage endures, and over the years, it brings happiness and contentment to husband and wife. More important, it brings honor to God, the Originator of marriage.

Answer 5

A true christian? Lord? God? Allah? Buda? How is Chistianity the true religion of all the religions to pick from? Doesn't your mental health deserve the best from you not a faith which is defined as firm belief in something for which there is no proof. Your life is more proof and your happiness is more important. Be good to yourself.

Answer 6

Yes and yes. I have seen several Christians divorce and their subsequent marriages blessed by God. There are many instances where divorce is essential for the mental and physical welfare of an abused spouse.

Answer 7

Yes. Just because you are a Christian doesn't mean that you have to take abuse. A Christian should try to make there marriage work out but sometimes the other person doesn't feel the same.

Answer 8

Yes

Answer 9

Matthew 5:32 KJV reads, But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery.

Answer 10

God allows a divorce for adultery only but condones divorce other wise. It was allowed because of hardened hearts. read Hebrew Chapter 13 for more details. Also read the book of Romans as it will help you to understand a lots of things.

Answer 11

I feel that if you are in a loveless marriage bound to a person who physical, mental and spiritual abuses you that God will accept that. He is love and I don't feel that he will bind his people whom He love deeply to a situation that harms them and could end up ultimately destroying there soul. His will is not in the physical but in the spiritual and His soul purpose is to in the end obtain the soul so I feel He would rather you guard the soul above anything else