ok, my boyfriend of a month and me have been crazy about each other for along time, just got together recently now that he is separated from his wife.(she cheated on him) they are still friendly, and last night i saw just how-friendly they are. she is jealous of me from the comments i hear, has wanted to meet me, and asks my b/f if the kids like me better and stuff like that. well last night he drops off his kids and i saw her grab him when he was walkin out the door and pull him to her and hug all up on him. this was clearly done to make me jealous by her and make me think theres still something between them. i dont know what to think about this. i talked to him and he said she was just being stupid. what should i do? i was pretty mad, dont wanna deal with jealousy and games but really like this guy
2007-06-26 06:47:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it's not a good idea to be together while he's going through a divorce.
2007-06-26 06:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by A P 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The baby's momma will try to do anything to make sure that you are disliked by the kids. She will try anything to keep you from dating their daddy. You just be an adult about things and ignore her.
Talk to him and let him know that you will not be accompanying him to drop off the children, as it's too upseting to see him and her "play" the way the do. That should perk up his ears a little and let him know that it really is offensive to you.
They need to keep a good relationship if the children aren't going to suffer. How good a relationship is up to them.
2007-06-26 13:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by Drea L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if they aren't officially divorced you should never ever see the kids until the divorce is final. Her lawyer will use that against him assuming he wants joint custody.
Therefore, you should never be around when the kids are being transfered from one parent to the other. When he has the kids, you shouldn't be in the picture at all. You should make the ex and kids believe your relationship is over, until the divorce is settled. He needs to appear the saint in all this.
I'm sure she is trying to make his life difficult, therefore pissing you off makes his life difficult.
2007-06-26 13:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by Fester Frump 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the grown up, ignore the stupidity. She prolly is just playing games, some women are like that. She cheats but doesn't want him to have anyone else. You have to have faith in your guy and relationship. With that said, it is a sticky place to have a relationship so soon after their separation.
2007-06-26 13:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by 32nkikin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She did it, not him. Dont blame him. What you need to understand is that she is playing a game to ruin your relationship, and you know what your doing? LETTING HER WIN! Play the game right back! Next time shes around, grab him and make her hug look like a high five. Give him the business right in front of her, and when your done, turn to her and smile and wink.
2007-06-26 13:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
she is trying to make u jealous. watch it though maybe he is done with her. at the same time if there is still something there in his heart,mind or penis and she does all the right things he will give in... they are married and have kids. it just depends on how much he loves her. right now he just might be pissed and hurt. just becareful of ur feelings. .. so good luck to ya
2007-06-26 13:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by misty p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she is just doing that to make you mad and she wants you to get jealous so maybe you and your b/f could brake up!but if you see him with her like that then there might be a lttle somthin going on!just dont show her your mad
2007-06-26 13:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by amber_AC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be making a mistake by getting involved with a married man, you might want to hold off until he is divorced
2007-06-26 13:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by RUSSELLL 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best advice, wait until he is divorced and has been seen other girls than you.
Nothing is worse than being the "rebound" chic.
2007-06-26 13:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by 2shay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you do: Nothing. Be overly sweet to her. She did that JUST to make you upset... So don't give her the satisfaction of seeing you mad!
2007-06-26 13:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by *huge sigh* 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋