im no longer happy in my relationship, we argue constantly and my gf is taking me for granted. i dont feel appreciate. i want to break up with her but its hard cuz i love her and wish she could change but she s not changing, the relationship is going down hill.
today was the last straw she asked me to get her something and i was going to get it so i called her and she tells me what are u calling for, I was insulted by that (now i need a reason to call) so with my emotions getting the best of me i curse at her and hung up
what should i do?
i dont know what to say to break up with her ( i already told her i m not happy and that we need to improve our relationship but nothing has really happen)
please help thanks
2007-06-26 06:45:00 · 2 answers · asked by simple J 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Classic mistake, learn from this, realize that at the center of any deep and meaningful relationship is a friendship. Looks to me like your in love with a stranger, how litttle you understand why she is the way she is tells me so. Also seems she feels the same way about you, weather she thinks anything wrong with that would be outside the limits of most peoples compassion thou, so just two people, in love (yes love is a funny thing, doesn't require anything but something to love.), who didn't take the time to actually get to know each other, get confrontable with each other, and be honest with each other. Don't feel bad this is the way most relationships go, you could salvage it if she is willing to fight for it, but it seems the bed has already been made...
2007-06-26 07:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that your relationship is going rocky but I would advise you to be patient and wait until your twins are born. Than you can take actions than. If you really can not stand it after your twins are here than tell you that you just need some time alone and give yourself room to think and explore. But being pregnant (if this is the same girl), women tend to be really emotional, whether if its a short temper or whatever. I would really be patient and decide after the arrival of your twins.
2007-06-27 11:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by luckycharm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋