Yesterday my gf and I were watching a movie. We were cuddling and really close to each other. I had my hand between her legs and I am not sure if I moved it too far up. Well... I moved it until I couldn't move it any closer (if you guys know what I mean) and she didn't react so I assumed it was ok with her. Like half an hour later she crosses her legs. I am not sure if she did this because she doesn't want me to do it again (but why did she take so long then?) or just to change position. Just after she crossed her legs she didn't seem mad or upset or anything, but if she is not then why did she cross her legs? Should I ask her if I made her feel uncomfortable yesterday? Or, do I take she crossing her legs afet half an hour as a response? We are both 17 and I don't really want to mess up our relationship with stupid stuff like this. She is really important for me...
2007-06-26 06:39:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she was uncomfortable with it she would have moved immediately, or looked at you funny. i'm not saying do it again, but if you do do it again and she moves sooner then she probably doesnt like it. i wouldn't talk to her about it only because she didn't make it a big deal and if you do it could become a little awkward.
2007-06-26 06:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by Wallflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. I wouldn't worry about it at all. You shouldn't confront her about it cause that will probably make her even more uncomfortable. Bottom line, I don't think it made her uncomfortable if she let you do it. If you held your hand there for a half hour she probably was wondering why you didn't start kissing her and etc. It could of been something as simple as an itch and so she crossed her legs to get rid of it.
2007-06-26 13:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by beak41 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u messed anything up if she really dosent like it she will tell u...no matter what any one says or thinks girls think about sexual things just as much as guys and some want it just as much to. so if she crossed her legs that long after im sure it was just to change positions or something. u can try it again and see how she reacts but dont force it and if she seems ok with it then u did nothing wrong or u can ask her next time ur cuddling if its ok with her. but i wouldnt worry sounds like she didnt mind.
2007-06-26 13:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw she proly did not care that you did that because if a guy does that to me I move there hand away if I dont like it and most girls I know would do that same. She was proly just moving positions sitting in one spot for to long can hurt. I would say if u think it may make her feel outta place then just dont do it again and if it really bothers her Im sure she would say something.
2007-06-26 13:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Amy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing she wasn't comfortable with what you were doing or she would have let you continue. Don't worry about it though, its not that big of a deal ok. Try it again the next chance you get, and if she does the same thing you will know.
2007-06-26 13:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea...if she didn't react then i think it was okay. she definently would have pulled away WHEN you did it if she was uncomfortable. you could still talk to her about it--its not a big deal and u don't wanna make a big thing out of it so i'd just ask her if she minds you touching her and u just didn't want to make her uncomfortable... something like that. But im pretty sure she didn't mind
2007-06-26 13:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it next time, whether or not your gf wants it. ITs not the issue, if you still enjoy non-sexual things together then go for it. Dont do things that will just put the two of you in certain unlikable situations.
Enjoy eating out, watching movies and hanging out wholesomely. I don't think both of you are prepared for any sexual relationship. Even assuming that both of you are not virgins anymore...enjoy the friendship first.
2007-06-26 13:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by bounce_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her about how she felt yesterday. Its really sweet of you to be soo concerned and caring. Im not suer hwo to take the fact of her crossing her legs so i would just ask her.
2007-06-26 13:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by ducky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she likes it, but doesnt want to go any further. still, i'm not ur gf, and dont know what goes on in her head. next time you cuddle with her and move ur hand along her legs ask her softly in her ear, if you're getting too close.
2007-06-26 13:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by sherry312 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably really likes you back but maybe she was just changing position. If she felt uncomfortable she would have moved her legs sooner.
2007-06-26 13:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋