he wants to be a father to my 2 year old daughter, and he means the world to me. i would do anything for him.
2007-06-26 04:39:18 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't even think about starting anything until he breaks up with his girlfriend. Even then it seems kind of risky. If he is talking to you about getting together with you while he still has a girlfriend, he doesn't sound like he's very faithful but ultimately, the decision is yours to make.
2007-06-26 04:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by littleone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I'll ever understand women who start a relationship with a man who is either married or spoken for, and then think they are going to be the one who ends up with this man and they are going to live happily ever after forever and ever. Are you completely insane? He's cheating on his current girlfriend in order to "be" with you, and you "love" him and he wants to be a "father" to you daughter. Boy you are a piece of work. What happens when he leaves you to go and "be" with the other woman while in a relationship with you? And at this time, you've already exposed your daughter to him, so not only will he be leaving you (and you are older and KNOW BETTER), but he will also be leaving your daughter. Yeah good luck with all that. You need help.
If you'll even listen to this advice....you need to back off and stay away from him now. You have a child. Think about these things. And think about what kind of people you are exposing your child to....
2007-06-26 04:51:30 · answer #2 · answered by 2nd Time Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't wait around for the what if or the maybe's because this 'guy' you are in love with... Isn't moving at the speed you want him to and he may never... becarful when you get yourself into these situation... it's not healthy for you or your 2 yr old... I would be more likely to say wait if you truely love this guy if you didn't have a little one in the picture...
But then again when or if you two are together and he comes home late from work or goes out with the guys are you going to have any settled thoughts in your head he isn't out with someone else... Think before you jump... Remember love is a state of mind and all you have to do is figure out how to change your state of mind... Good luck
2007-06-26 04:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by Who knows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound good to me. You need to think. You are waiting for someone to break up with another person. Do you not realize that the same thing can happen to you after a while. Another thing, how well do you know this person? I would be very cautious bringing ANY man into my young childs life these days girl or boy. Is the childs father alive? If so no matter who he is the child should be made aware of her own father as she will want to know who he is when she grows up. Be careful this man may want ot be more than a father to your child. Make sure you do a thorough investigation of his background and who he is before bringing him into your childs life. But I certainly wouldn't bring him into mine.
2007-06-26 04:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kandie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHAHA!!! He wants you to wait until him and his girlfriend break up? When is that going to happen? Next week? Next year? How long are you supposed to wait around for him? That is the stupidest thing I have ever heard. If he wanted to be with you he wouldn't be with someone else. Wait around for him if you want, but you are only asking for heartache! You have a child to think of now. Do you really want a man like that raising your daugher? I didn't think so.
2007-06-26 04:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves you, he shouldn't be with another woman. It sounds ridiculous to me that somebody tells you he loves you but she have to wait for him to break up with the current girlfriend. It seems like somebody wants to have two dishes at the same time. Get rid of him. You'll find out that he is a liar. Very soon.
2007-06-26 04:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by I Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, are you really that naive?
If he loved you so much he would have left the girl already. Has it not occurred to you that while he is with another girl he is pursuing you. That speak volumes to his ability to commit.
You should forget about this guy, he is going to continue to tell y ou what you want to hear and not follow through on his promises. You have a choice, you can hurt now, or hurt later. Either way you need to move on.
2007-06-26 04:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by smedrik 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you out your dam mind!!! first off u don't ever look to another guy for no father figure to ur child!!!! second what the hell he take u for wait till he break up with his girl!!! girl please he is straight playing u alright. he has his cake and eating it to. u don't ever let anyone play u like that. tell him kiss were the sun don't shine. your lying u won't do anything cuz if he told u to rob a bank, kill, or jump off the bridge u wouldn't so think b 4 u talk. he not worried about u remember the key word when he breaks up with his girl. so if its yrs. ur gonna wait please stop , and don't continue being a stunt dummy!!! cuz that what u are to him right now. worry about your child n u not no lam *** BOY!!! tellin u to wait until he breakup with his girl.
2007-06-26 05:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by GSkillz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look what I would do is pray about it. And as you say this guy is worth a lot to you. Then wait, you look foward to you and his future along with your daugther. Not every guy will just get up and say I am going to take responsibility for something that may no be his. All I can say is to be strong and keep walking, you let him do what he has to do. So, that you'll can be very happy.
2007-06-26 04:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by PrIsSy LoVeS yOu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until he breaks up with his current girlfriend. Hm.
How long will it be, assuming he does break up with this current fling and does hook-up with you, before he decides you are not really what he desires and starts the same cycle of looking for someone else all over again? Find someone that is really true, and really available.
2007-06-26 04:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋