2 months ago and i feel dead aswell
2007-06-26 00:33:05 · 25 answers · asked by astra 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
yes it is normal, you have lost a huge part of your life, not just a mum but a very special friend as well. you are grieving and feel an overwhelming sadness, but it is true that time is a great healer and you will feel better eventually. all the best x
2007-06-26 00:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by sharon f 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out 2 you. My mum died almost 2 years ago and I feel at times dead inside myself. Take time to grieve, there is no time factor. Whether you believe it or not they do let you know they are about. After my dog died a couple of months ago, I went to bed and suddenly the bed dented in the middle and settled down, When I turned the light on the indentation was still there and the place was warm!! Some things we cant explain but when they happen they are of some comfort.
2007-06-26 01:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by runningbabe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your reaction is completely normal, Honey. It's a cliche, but the only thing that will help is time. Don't worry about what's "normal" or "abnormal", your reactions and emotions are valid, irrespective of what anyone else thinks or says. It's a horrible time you're going through right now, and I (like most of the people around you, I bet) would love to be able to say some magic word and have you feel better, but there's very little anyone can do or say, except keep your chin up, remember the good times, don't feel guilty for having bad days, and don't shut the people around you out. I wish you all the best, and I am terribly sorry for your and your family's loss.
2007-06-26 00:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by lululaluau 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think that there is any thing normal when we loose someone close i remember when my dad died i didn't really cry only at the funeral ,then i was watching something on TV and it was one of his programmes and i cried buckets because he would never be able to see these things again and that's when it hit home i wouldn't see him ever again grief comes in different stages and no two people have the experience so let your self do it your way.
2016-05-20 23:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a very strong grief you are having to deal with. I can't imagine what it is like to lose a parent, but I know where you will get some amazing words of comfort. Go to www.vanpraagh.com and click on the message boards, you can even leave a message to ask for help. I have been on that site for many different reasons and their help is always amazing (it's all totally free)
I am sorry for your loss, no matter how bad you feel, you will get better. It just takes time.
2007-06-26 00:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by LauraMarie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is normal. I lost my mom last August, so I can feel your pain. It does take time. Sometimes when I think I am over it and gonna be ok, I turn a corner or pick up the phone to call her.
Try to live your life through the lessons she has taught you. That is the only "eternal life" there is: our legacy living on in those we leave behind
2007-06-26 00:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry you lost your mother. It is heartbreaking, I know. Let yourself grieve and do not hold it back. It is actually good for you.
I lost my mommy six years ago next month. I still cannot think about her more than sixty seconds without crying.
Each day, you will get better and better. And better. The pain will begin to lessen. It will never go away entirely but it will become less agonizing for you. Because of such scriptures as Acts 24:15, I look forward to seeing my little mommy again. I wish for you to have that hope as well - the hope of the resurrection.
Hannah J Paul
2007-06-26 00:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah J Paul 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Its perfectly normal to feel this way. When my nan died my mum got really depressed. She'd already lost her dad and she said she felt alone even tho she still had my dad and us kids. In the end the doctor made her an appointment with a counsellor which helped her a lot. Also, and i know it sounds lame now but time helps too. You have my deepest sympathy, good luck. x
2007-06-26 00:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My condolences.
I'm sorry, but you have to accept that death is inevitable, and that your sense of loss will hurt.
I was once told that it takes nine months to even begin to recover from the death of a loved one.
My partner, whom I loved with all my heart, was killed three and a half years ago ... and I still think about her, and miss her, every single day.
You are alive, and all you can do is keep living, and make the best of each and every day.
If you can not overcome these negative thoughts, then you need to find a counsellor to talk to ... this is better than talking to even the best-meaning of friends, as you can unload all your feelings to someone who can look objectively at them, and help you deal with them.
Be strong. It does get easier to bear, I promise.
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2007-06-26 00:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by abetterfate 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It took a couple of years to feel alive after losing my dtr. and there is still an emptiness.
Have faith, it seems to be the only way back to living the good life. A bit of advise?...try to appreciate something of beauty each day...even if it's something your mum would have found beautiful..the scent of her favourite rose...dusting her favourite knick nack, the smile of a beloved child. Accept all loving hugs, and have faith that the pain will end. All her pain and anxiety is gone with her and she left you with a wonderful opportunity to reexamine and strengthen your faith in God and self. will keep you in my prayers
2007-06-26 06:21:49 · answer #10 · answered by linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋