What would you do if you knew something so horrible but don't know what to do about it? I was a foster child growing up and I was sexually abused by my foster brother I have 2 younger sisters who were also sexually abused by him. Just yesterday I found out that he has done this horrible thing to many other foster girls who lived either in the home or next door. He has also did this horrible thing to his own little sister, I have told my ex foster mother that he has done this to me and she has done nothing and does not believe a word I say. Last night I called her and told her to please talk to her daughter because I feel that something happened to her. I am afraid that my ex foster mother will do nothing and the foster brother will do it again to other little girls who don't deserve this abuse. Please tell me what I should do. This is really bothering me and I already suffer from depression because of what he and my foster parents did to me. Help please...
2007-06-25 20:52:15 · 18 answers · asked by sexylady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
By the way I am married 23yrs old and I have 2 children. I have many problems due to the way my foster family treated me and because of what he did to me and my sisters. I suffer from ptsd, depression and insomnia.
2007-06-25 20:59:28 · update #1
well ur sn right now is sexylady, which doesnt exactly show depression
other than that, get together with those girls and share thoughts with each other. after that, take action. court? i dunno...of course, check in with ur foster mother. not alone anymore, but with all those other girls that you may think to have been abused by him. if that doesnt work, take action by yourself. tell the police; take him to court. u cant always depend on other people
2007-06-25 20:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by evo25zero 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to do several things. 1) call the cops on the guy. If what you have said is true, he is guilty of statutory rape 2) Address these issues with a counselor 3) Sever your ties with him and his family, foster family or no. It will be hard for you, but if you let this slide, you'll have to live with the knowledge that you had the power to stop a monster and did nothing.
2007-06-25 22:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mick85204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can call the police, call the agency that licensed your foster parents to take in kids or call the other victims and ask them to call your foster mom and talk to her about what happened to them. How long can she really continue to deny everything when confronted by multiple young women with the same story?
2007-06-27 03:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by wisegirl1204 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the non emergency police line in your city - they will direct you to where you need to go. Also, I would tthink about getting a lawyer and suing the parents in a civil case for just looking the other way when their son is obviously a monster. Good luck, you are a survivor and you are not going to let this slide, be brave.
2007-06-25 20:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo! to be real... I'd kill him. Not directly. But do something to get him put in prison... Every f***ing pervert that gets put in prison pays for it. They are weak little f***ing ******* that should be dead. Kill em all. Someone really close to me had to be victim of a similar situation, and I swear...to my lord and savior Jesus Christ that if i ever find out who this f*ck*r is.. He's a gonner. I can't understand how your husband deals with knowing who this pus*y is without lashing out. Bottom line..Get him in a place where he will have to be subdued to the same things that you, and i'm sure plenty of other girls had to go through........BANG!!! but you don't do it though okay... you have a family. Screw the Foster parents too.
2007-06-25 22:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, i feel so sorry for what happened to you. you did not deserve anything like that, but no other person deserves it either! so please stand up and speak up for those other girls that maybe just dont have the strength or courage to do so. please report it to the police or any other authority that could make sure your foster brother cannot do these cruel things to any little girl or even woman. thank you
2007-06-25 21:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the pastor of your church, or your physician, or call the County Department of Social Health Services (DSHS), or Child Protective Services, or the police department in your town. When they answer the phone say, "I want to report sexual abuse of a child.." They will help you from there.
2007-06-25 20:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by Einsteinetta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get as many of the girls he did this to together and get them to go with you to the police. If you all tell somebody they might believe you then. But you have to something to get this guy off the streets he's going to keep doing it again and again.
2007-06-25 21:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by qsb_1118 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the Social Services, Child welfare Division, and tell them what you have told us. You need to protect these other children and the many more it might happen to.
Good Luck!!
2007-06-25 20:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the worst crime that i have heard. Just stop this horrible things by tell the police, every thing will be solved
I hope you would be fine and feel better.
2007-06-25 21:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by Tock s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋