why does it seem men are more afraid of commitment in a relationship then women?

Answer 1

I dont know I am a 18 year old guy, but I dont really want any relationships I would rather be alone. But maybe some guys r just afraid of rejection more then girls I dont know maybe girls are afraid of commitment to dont know really

Answer 2

I don't think they are afraid of commitment. They are just enjoying themselves been PLAYERS! Picking up a new girl every week, and getting BOOTY!

Some haven't grown up yet! Not mature enough to be in a relationship!

Answer 3

Some men are more afraid and some are more commiting.......same applies for women.....

Answer 4

MEN-->> DONT HAVE ANY PROBLEM WITH COMMITMENT.

Get that out of your head right now.

Men fearlessly commit to EVERY other aspect of their LIVES without hesitation, or doubt . . . the mortgage, car, their jobs,the bills, interviews, appointments, businesses, meetings, who they hang with, how they spend their time, things that need to get fixed and done . . . NO PROBLEM.
They roll up their sleaves and WILLINGLY sign on the dotted line ALL THE TIME. . . and they KNOW their FUTURES depend on it.

This "fear" that people speak of,
comes from not wanting to commit
TO THE "WRONG" WOMAN.

Its not the commitment that MEN fear . . . its finding out LATER that committing to the WRONG woman was a total waste of his time.

ALL MEN have a right and RESPONSIBILITY to themselves to -->> keep themselves available for the RIGHT GIRL. As much as you would prefer to choose from available men . . . in EXACTLY the same way . . . for EXACTLY the same reasons.

While this attitude - some will say - is "not the right way to SCORE" . . . the men must always remember . . .

SCORING is too easy.
Finding a woman that's worth his TIME . . . is NOT.

A devoted man, and the power to INSPIRE HIM to WANT to be with her . . is in EVERY woman's grasp. Women dont even REALIZE how to go about MAKING a man want to be committed to her. In fact, many of them don't even think they SHOULD.

"If I throw my legs up for him on the third date . . . POOF! he should be committed . . . and he is a totall ****** if he isn't." . . . as if the orgasm itself was not worth having and there was nothing in it for HER last night.

Please. Tell it to somebody ELSE.

When will they learn that A COMMITMENT is not something they are "automatically entitled" to?? It's something they have to WORK TO EARN. . . instead of conveniently blaming the men for "not being CAPABLE". - LOL!

A man 's commitment -->> is entirely up to HER.

NOT HIM.

HER.

And GUESS WHAT -->> getting a man to want to commit is gonna be a hell of ALOT easier than the rediculous hoops she will expect HIM to jump through just because she likes to watch him try. LMFAO!!!!

Anyone who thinks differently . . . is kidding themselves.

:)

Answer 5

probably 'coz men think that women seem to take over in a relationship! lol
that's probably why they try to find a gentle girl who listens to the guy rather than saying "does this look good on me?"
well that's what i think, but i mean i've asked myself that question

Answer 6

I haven't found it to be that way.
But for those who are that way, perhaps because it has traditionally been the man's role to provide for the family.
That's a lot of responsibility.
And if you're a single mom, the whole world bows to you and helps you. They don't for a single--or any other kind of--a man.
(No. I am not a guy.)

Answer 7

It's a man's duty to fight off commitment and marriage.
It's a women's job to show him how much he wants to commit to marriage even though he never new he always wanted this.

Answer 8

Because when you get commited your life surrounds that person i mean yeah it sounds nice but we want to be free to hang out with our friends without having to think that you left her all alone you know.

Answer 9

Not just men but when any two people meet and there is an attraction...many times its not who that person really is until time with them has been extended. Trick or treat!!!

Answer 10

Women are emotional. We go with our feelings. Men are thinkers (so they think) and they try to go with what is rational or what is rattling in their heads. We are more open to love and the idea of being in love so it is easier for us to open up to a relationship.

Also, men don't want committment because they want to be free to be with more than one woman. With committment comes responsibilities. A lot of them don't want to go to family functions or feel obligated to take you out. They want to deal with you when they want and some of them want various women so you just have to be careful who you give your heart to.