I have a guy friend that is from Flint but lives in Texas. I live in Detroit. When he comes home we don't see eachother cause he says he doesnt have a car(but i do). When he gets back to Texas he tells me stuff like, "I'm tryin 2 get this money so we can live good" or "I'm gonna marry you and give you everything you want" Why is he tellin me this crap but when he comes we never see eachother?
2007-06-25 20:23:02 · 8 answers · asked by bigbosslady84 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have to agree with everyone else on here
girl, let me tell you this and always remember it: actions speak louder than words...it's like, "okaaay, you say you wanna marry me and give me everything i want...then PROVE IT" It doesn't necessarily mean he'll marry you on the spot but steps to prove that he's changing and being responsible - just that effort he would put into it. But obviously, he's not doing anything...it seems like you care about the guy and I don't know alot about the situation but from what you're saying...he doesn't seem true.
2007-06-25 20:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... what you want is to spend quality time with him so tell him to start with giving you that he's making excuses tell him you are a big girl and you can handle it and he need to be a man and keep it real sound like he's avoiding you. Life is too short to be waiting for him to make the decision for you so if he's not going to be a man you be the woman and tell him get to stepping LOL and keep on stepping.
2007-06-26 04:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by EGYPT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, sounds a little attached, but do you guys even know eachother that well? if you don't, just try to end it and move on. he seems more into the future then in the present. unless your like 30 or sumthing. if not, date around. long distance relationships usually don't last anyway, and he seems a little weird.
2007-06-26 03:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want good advise find a guy who can at least get a car this fellow is no more than a user that.s how he gets his kicks he never change you can do better in my opion?
2007-06-26 03:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk who is playing you and he is making sure you will be there if he needs you for any reason...
Sad but true.
2007-06-26 03:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a weirdo dont fall for it he just wants to get some from you so dont trust him.
2007-06-26 03:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by s48483 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he is playing games. it is just as plain and simple as that.
2007-06-26 03:27:41 · answer #7 · answered by karMA_DAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't add up. Forget about him.
2007-06-26 03:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by Neica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋