just wondering, I'm in a odd situation here and it's getting kinda confusing. One minute I think he might be interested in dating then the next I don't know if he's just in it for the sex. I'm trying not to get attatched but I dont know what to do and it's kinda getting frustraighting...help?
2007-06-25 20:18:50 · 12 answers · asked by countrydreamerrm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Adding more detail. Ok we met in May, we've been on 2 dates, and yes he does call after the fact. Sometimes he doesn't want sex though. I'm not complaining about the casual sex because I myself don't mind it. But I would like to date him (not in serious relationshp though). And sometimes he doesn't call. Our schs from work are kinda messed up right now and we are lucky if we see eachother twice a week. But I just don't know if he wants more and is to scared, or if he's just happy with sex and no strings attatched. But when we are together he holds my hand, and does all the stuff outside of sex that a guy/couple would do. I dont know maybe I'm just being silly..
2007-06-25 20:40:49 · update #1
does he do things for you beside sex?
is he helpful and there by your side when you need support?
does he call you every day just to hear your voice?
if you answered no to any of these question then he just after the sex
2007-06-25 20:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by RUSSELLL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Details would help make an educated decision. How old are the two of ya? How long ya been together? I'm a guy thats 30... And god knows what I have done for sex. The details would help to make suggestions IMO
2007-06-26 03:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ruffy007 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well there is alot of factors to consider, but my advice would be to look at his eyes directly into them. Most guys, and id say i'm in this category wouldnt be able to do this if all they wanted to do is the hibbitty dibbitty, dont get me wrong they're are some who can but you should (i hope) be able to pick up on other things. If he's checking out the scenary (hence) eye contact then walk away. The eyes are the window to the sould whether you believe there is such a thing or not.
2007-06-26 03:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by Underpantsbandito 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with being in it for the sex. In fact he probably wants the sex AND wants to date. But the sex is always on our minds, no matter how much we like or respect the girl
2007-06-26 03:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by ccutler69 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when a man acts stupid like that then all we want is sex sex and more sex we would say anything to get your pants simple as that ok so get rid of the dam idoit will yea.
2007-06-26 03:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he calls you back after the fact. Thats one good way to know.
2007-06-26 03:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by G Money 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am a male. if a guy likes you he never ask you this . if he dose he is only intrested in sex only and he is a player a real guy would never treat a girl or woman he cared about that way. in my opion?
2007-06-26 03:25:19 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just sex it off. Really who needs relationships when u can just have casual sex. I dont get it...
2007-06-26 03:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by 1-2m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to start hanging out with him in the day more, see if he is into it. if he only calls u at night for booty calls, uh oh not good.
2007-06-26 03:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just treat him as a friend and notice his physical activities and seeing his eyes, you shall be able to know his intentions.
2007-06-26 03:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by harvinderaz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋