me and my ex have 2 kids together. we broke up about 7 months ago, and he is in a new relationship, his new girlfriend is pregnant, and whatever else. ANYWAYS, i have become pretty close to his best friend (who i must say, is also my kids GodFather) and every conversation that me and this guy have ends with an 'i love you'. we briefly talked about taking this farther than just friends (he lives out of town right now) but he is coming to visit next month. My question is, 'Is he off limits' because him and my baby daddy are best friends? should i just hang this idea up? My baby daddy is the kind to get jealous, regardless of who i am with, whether he knows them or not???
2007-06-25 19:56:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who does your kids father think he is to get jealous of who youre with when hes already gone and made soemone else pregnant???? doll, the scariest thing after a breakup is getting to know someone else all over again. it seems you already know this guy so go for it. you know him, and trust him. never mind what your ex thinks. let this guy deal with him. you DONT have to answer to your ex anymore. i say throw yoruself headfirst into a happy relationship wtih this guy... oh and your kids know and love him too.... BBBBONUS!!!!
2007-06-25 20:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yea the dude is off limits. Not only is he your ex's best bud, but he is your kids God father. How in the world would you explain it to them that you are making someone that is just a family friend their step dad. To whom is also their own father's best friend as well. Kids may be too young to understand all the family lines but close friendships and seeing daddy trying to beat up their God father is not good for them either. When he comes up, break it off. Its the only really ethical thing to do here. I know it may hurt at first but lets be real, you don't need your ex hating his friend for something like this.
2007-06-26 03:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey he has a new relationship--why would he care about yours??? And who does he think he is to get involved??? If he does say anything--tell him to take a hike or the kids go on his front porch--forever !! Get a life of your own--he does not own you---he has nothing to say--go easy with your new guy--start slow and let it build--he may not want 2 kids after a while--that is a fact--he needs to get it understood that you and the kids go together--and kids come first. Good luck and have a happy life.
2007-06-26 03:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be playing with fire, but people are all different. If he's your kids' godfather, then I don't know that I'd want to run the risk of having this relationship sour, only because then your kids have lost Dad AND God Father! That would be VERY painful for the kiddies!!!!
2007-06-26 03:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw ''off limits''. Are you jealous of the daddy who got another woman pregnant? Probably not...So I'd say ignore him and be happy with the best friend.
2007-06-26 03:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by aysi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your babies daddy has no reason to get jealous because he has him another girl and he is no longer with you. And if you want to date his friend, then it is your choice. the thing is, yeah, it probably will ruin his friendship with him, but that should be the friends choice. I think that if you love someone that you should try to be together, as long as its not cheating on someone.
2007-06-26 03:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy is definitely off limits. Too close to your ex...rumors or stuff could spread if him and ur baby's daddy still hang
2007-06-26 02:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by PrettySeaShell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! He is NOT off-limits!!
Date this man. your ex is NOT part of YOUR life anymore and if he's really good with your babies and wants to have them as his own and love them as his own then you've got yourself a winner.
I'd say either marry this man, or don't date another man again until your kids are both grown and out of the house.
good luck hun!
2007-06-26 03:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say best friend is off limits. Better to move on to someone who does not know your ex.
2007-06-26 03:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OFF LIMITS.
You wouldn't want your best friend dating
your ex... would you?
It'd cause too many problems.
2007-06-26 03:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by ohsosweeto2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋