I like my x teacher. I can't help it and I want to do something about it. I think he likes me and I think he's in a relationship, but I could be wrong. We're both adults, and I'm not intimidated by his life experience, but I'm scared to make a move. I feel like asking out for coffee would be appropriate. How do I slide it by him? In person? over email? I want a fail proof way to get to know him better. This means a lot to me. I need all the juicy details you can think of, and I don't want a fling, I wanna know this man! I think he might assume that I like him more than it is ok for the time being. How can I put him at ease, and keep the door wide open?But I'll take what I can get. Any ideas on how I might get closer to this awsome man? I'm not talking sex here...THANK YOU!
2007-06-25 19:48:00 · 5 answers · asked by CigarLove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HAHA the guy who said to ask the principal is funny. Ok, no his class in not in my major. I just can't stand to think that we'd never have a chance at anything because I happened to be in his class. Not a slave to circumstances. He is a bad boy at heart I feel. I will talk with him more, he is after all a professional and should want to offer his expertise...I'll smell the coffee first. I won't be forward, I have a feeling he's a little reserved.
2007-06-25 20:08:53 · update #1
Just generally talk to him about things then bring up coffee and ask him out its that easy trust me i do it all the time.
2007-06-25 19:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by s48483 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is college you're talking about and his teaching subject happens to be in your major, you could always ask him to be your mentor. If you think he's cute, you'd have to be very careful not to make him think that you're just wanting to get closer to him so that you can better your grade later on. Because if he teaches English and you're an English major, he might think that you're trying to get on his good side in order to get in good with his colleagues.
If he doesn't teach in your major, I would approach him at the beginning of next semester in person and just say how much you really enjoyed the class, and are there any other classes he's going to teach in the future.
I once went to a teacher to ask for a letter of recommendation and ended up being his Teaching Assistant. You just never know!!!
I wouldn't ask him out for coffee just yet. I would tend to keep it cool so as not to scare him off. Once you put an invitation out there to see him outside of class, there's no taking it back. Taking it slowly but surely is the best bet to get to know him. Go to him during his office hours every now and then, say that you were in the area and just wanted to see how he was doing.
If you're NOT in college, then I guess you could go back to an ex-high school teacher as well and thank him for teaching you so much.
2007-06-25 19:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of what you want, he is going to think that he is going to get more. If he knows that you are aware of his relationship, but still continue to pursue him for coffee and such, he is going to assume that he is going to bed with you eventually. Don't be so naive. Guys have huge egos. They think if you look at them for more than two seconds, you have invited them into your bed!!!
I take food to an elderly guy, because I know he doesn't get hot meals too often. I just found out that he thinks that I am interested in him!!! lol The male ego amazes me!!
2007-06-25 19:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are asking for trouble on this matter leave this alone ever watch the.t.v. on teachers and students . in my opion ?
2007-06-25 19:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mommy said you should go ask the principal.
2007-06-25 19:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋