How do I tell my husband I want to die?

Answer 1

honey,I know it hurts and that you think that nobody cares,but your husband does,and I do.because I've been through that and I know what it's like.please,please don't do anything to hurt yourself.you're too precious to the world for that.In the entire world,there's only one you.please don't make everyone miss out on the special,unique person that is you.if you need to talk just I'm me or email,OK?I wanna help you through this and be your friend.

Answer 2

Whatever you do don't tell your kids because they will just shout "Dad!! Mom says she wants to die!!" Just like on that commercial. If you've seen that commercial. And if you have kids. Think of a much more subtle way. You could try starting a conversation on Sunday after Church, if you go to Church, about the possibilities of life after death, then it would be a segway. A segway is one topic that logically flows into another topic. I'm not spelling it right either because the spell check won't fix it. So, you start talking about...what a minute, why do you want to die? Are you serious? That totally sucks. You mean metaphorically? Tired of long hours at work and bills pileing up? You mean as a figure of speech right? How do you tell him you are sick and tired of everything is what you mean right? Well, then do this: make his favorite dish for dinner and when he seems like he won't snap at you and call you weak just say "I think I'm sick and tired of everything. Any advice?" If that doesn't work then please do not pick me for best answer.

Edit: Okay it's segue. But that's not important. I hope you want to live again very soon!! Good luck!!

Answer 3

Dont be ridiculous! Death is nothing to trivialise! Suicide is THE WORST thing you could do! Because you will be punished with a very long period of limbo or nothingness between the time you die and are reborn! AND you will have alot of bad experiences in your next life! If your husband is making you THAT MISERABLE, get a DIVORCE and start a new life!! NO MAN on this earth is worth dying over! DITCH THE BUM AND ENJOY YOUR LIFE AGAIN!!!

Answer 4

Dear! 3 months had passed since I started thinking about death the time I open my eyes.From your question it's come clear to me that there's been smth that prevented you from talking to HIM about your serious problems by now: you may not be that close spiritually ,or it was him who's driven you to such a state (as it is MY case), etc.You should find a good specialist in mental issues ,a PSYCHOTHERAPIST to help you .And do not hesitate to email me any time if you need someone to share your emotions and feelings.Mari.

Answer 5

Can you rephrase the question better like how you want to die or what you want him to do when you die or just die for no reason at all?

Answer 6

A man goes to a shop, picks up a beautiful cup and says "my god this cup is so beautiful" and suddenly the cup starts talking to the man. The cup starts saying "O man, I am beautiful right now, but what was the state of my being before the pot-maker made me a beautiful pot?

Before I was sheer mud and the pot-maker pulled me out of the mud from the mother earth and I felt why that pot-maker is so cruel, he has separated me from mother earth. I felt a tremendous pain. And the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then he put me and churned me, when I was churned I felt so giddy, so painful, so stressful, I asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then he put me into a oven and heated me up, I felt completely burnt. There was tremendous pain and I asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" and the pot-maker said, "Just wait."

Then he poured hot paint on me and I felt the fume and the pain, I again asked the pot-maker "Why are you so cruel?" and the pot-maker said, "Just wait." Then again he put me into an oven and heated it to make me more strong, I felt life is so painful hence pleaded the pot-maker and the pot-maker said, "Just wait." And after that the pot-maker took me to the mirror and said, "Now look at yourself". And surprisingly I found myself so beautiful.

When god gives us lot of trouble, it appears god is very cruel but we need patience and we have to wait. When bad things happen to good people, they become better and not bitter.

So all difficulties are part of a cosmic design to make us really beautiful. We need patience, we need understanding, we need the commitment to go through in a very calm and wise way. So all difficulties are not to tumble us but to humble us.

With this understanding, let us not be against difficulty. Understand difficulty is a part of a purifying process. A purifying process at present which we cannot understand and hence we need faith and we need trust.

Let us understand how to handle stress with this background. You can be affected by stress from two angles. There is an internal stress and there is an external stress. Nobody can avoid stress; one has to only manage stress. Managing stress can be internal and also external.

The internal stress is; your thoughts can create stress, your values can create stress, and your beliefs can create stress, meaning thereby your stress is coming from your mind more from the outer world. Many people suffer not from heart attack - they suffer from thought-attack.

For example, when somebody says you are an idiot, we get so hurt, we get so victimised. My boss has called me an idiot and I am feeling tremendous pain. Now where does this stress come from? If my boss has called me an idiot, I have to ask myself "am I an idiot"?

If I am an idiot nothing to be upset about; and if I am not an idiot, then also nothing to be upset about! It is the perception of the boss. But why do we suffer from that stress? I suffer not because my boss has called me an idiot but because of the thought-attack.

I may say the boss has called me an idiot; therefore I am suffering? It is true that the words are unpleasant. But what hurts is the interpretation of the unpleasant word. The thought in me interprets. That is pain and therefore it becomes pain. Much of our stress is our mind interpreting it as pain. So we suffer from thought-attack more than heart attack.

Answer 7

Well-I want to die but I don't see any reason to tell anyone who loves you other than God. It might upset them.

But I told God only for ME would I die, but for God I will live.

Even St. Paul said he would rather be with the Lord, but for the Lord's sake, he will wait.

Answer 8

If you are speaking of suicide, i would tell him and ask for professional help. If you mean something like you want to tell him you dont want to be resuscitated or something in the future, explain to him that everyone has the personal choice to be kept alive against nature or not, and he should understand. good luck...

Answer 9

tell your husband how much emotional pain you are in, and that you need someone to help you through your issues, don't hurt yourself in any way, get professional help with your husbands help. I am praying for you.

Answer 10

just come right out and tell him that u dont feel like you have any reason to live anymore. he will pay way more attention to you and you can get some help. please dont attempt suicide. you can fix this. just think of all the people that care about you. if you cant, i bet you that if u kill urself, at least more than 30 people will come to ur funeral and at least 50 people will be very sad. please dont kill urself.