when im talking to my girlfriend, which is alot in a day, i have trouble keeping a conversation, =/ please help me. i try to talk about anything, but sometimes i can't think about anything.
2007-06-25 19:22:36 · 11 answers · asked by XFreddyX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive been in this situation. for the most part girls can keep a conversation going and you just need to actively participate. respond to whatever she has to say and use those cues to relate topics. i know it gets hard after you've asked and said all you need to say to your girlfriend. sometimes being random is good. after all the lame stuff like what you did today, tell her how you feel. think or write a list of topics before hand. just be natural. when you dont have nothing to say dont feel pressured to have to say anything. sometimes silence beautiful.
2007-06-25 19:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by keet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get involved in some activity that you both enjoy, and share conversations about. You could also study about some of her interests, and she about yours. Too much telephone talking can lead to lulls in the conversations. Even married people don't talk that much!!
2007-06-26 02:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have anything in common ? Usually if you like at least one thing that's common for you both this can keep a conversation lasting for a while.
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is your style of dating on demand ?
2007-06-26 02:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by k s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you and this girl been together? i think it's a bad sign if you cant have a conversation with your girlfriend, you are supposed to have things i common what else are you doing with her... try and talk about things that interest you and her...
and if all else fails...do something where you dont have to talk
2007-06-26 02:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The average woman says over 10,000 words in a day. The average man says about 2,000. There is nothing wrong with you, women just talk more.
2007-06-26 02:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by Briana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you have nothing to say && she doesn't either, ask her about herself (This is How You Figure Out Stuff Like her b-day, fav. color, fav. Style, Syblings names,ect...)And She Will Know You Realy Do Pay Attention To Her, And ya'll May Last Even Longer!!!*~â¥~* Jun 26, 2007
2007-06-26 02:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by baby gurl <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks dude...you need to think OUTSIDE the box...think completely wildly...and go off on tangents go back and forth...make jokes about the awkward silence ..turn the situation you are in into a conversation...make polite jokes about people around you...talk about friends...talk about lunch foods..sex...parents ..w/e...a good tip is to watch T.V or the news and see stories that will create conversation and mention them when talking to her.
2007-06-26 02:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by mike o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too be creative when you talk to her and talk about anything you think of or see but not about everything cuz some things should just be kept to yourself.
2007-06-26 02:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by s48483 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have that problem 2, i think its better to talk at nyt. Or maybe u guys can watch tv or a movie together
2007-06-26 02:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here frnd.... try to share evrythng, like what r u wearing, whats its colour, ask her the clr suits u, which outfits luks gud on u....... n so on....
2007-06-26 02:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋