said he wanted a "real relationship-no games" Well then all hell broke loose in his family and he told me to be wait for him while he trys to "fix" this problem..Well I just found out via a generic email that a close family memeber passed away..Ok this man claims to love me and says he want to be with me, but why would he not call me personally to tell me? I have told him many times that I want only to be able to help him, but I keep getting the door shut..Friends say I should move on, that a couple needs to be able to open up to each other and the fact that he won't talk, means that he is either changed his mind about me, or that it is just a bad idea to be with someone who wont open up...What do you suggest..To be honest I am really ready to throw in the towel.
2007-06-25 18:31:32 · 8 answers · asked by Mommy Dearest 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get the towel ready and if he feels better and calls, maybe.....but move on
2007-06-25 18:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found that it really depends on the guy. Some guys want a serious relationship at 15, some guys never do. Although guys tend to act a bit 'laddish' around other guys, which is why you might think that they're never serious. As for why, I have no idea other than they decide they want to treat girls seriously and have a serious relationship. It's not about sex though - guys are either always respectful of women or just want them to put out (in my opinion, the latter aren't worth bothering with). Sorry if this has just made you more confused! Good luck.
2016-05-20 22:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said all hell broke loose in his family and he tells you to wait with no phone calls or reason,is it possibl this man is married and she just found out about the relationship,and thats why he tells you to wait till he fixes the problem?also even though it was a close member of the family that is no excuse not call and tell you and besides it is not in his family,sweetie my advice to you is to move on,a relationship is based on trust and honesty,without that there is no relationship,and when he does call ,please dont leave out the reason he gives I want to know my self
2007-06-26 06:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by God Child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't throw in the towel until you discuss this with him. He may not have wanted to burden you with his problems, or he may not be the type to speak about things like that very easily. Five months is not a long time. He may not be quite ready to share all of his personal problems with you just get. Be patient and openly discuss your reservations with him.
2007-06-25 18:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give him room. Sometimes, guys like to be alone and work things out. Just the nature of guys to try to fix things. I must say, the best help you can give him is to assure him that he willbe strong and that you will stand by him no matter what.
2007-06-25 18:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by kickit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for some guys its hard to talk to someone else about something as serios as a death in the family. keep at him, make sure that he realize that you are there for him. sooner or later he will open up.
2007-06-25 18:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't want you to see him when he is vulnerable. Just give him some time and give him his space eventually this will all pass.
2007-06-25 18:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he's not worth it. you want someone u can trust and be open with (in both ways) not some low life who cant express himself to you, dog. ya dig?
2007-06-28 11:41:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋