It's safe to say that was a No, right?
Cause I already asked someone else.
I made the right choice...right?
2007-06-25 18:00:52 · 12 answers · asked by ♥poppy honey♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I'm getting married in 4 months.
2007-06-25 18:01:23 · update #1
Yes, you made the right choice. If she had wanted to be your maid of honor, she had been there right away. She wasn't special enough. I hope that your other made of honor is a good one!!!
2007-06-25 18:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did the right thing. I don't understand what the big issue with asking someone to be in the wedding. It's either yes or no. I know that being in a wedding is a costly expense, but money shouldn't be an object if your friend is getting married. What matters is being there for your friend. If a friend asked me to be in their wedding, I would say yes immediately. What's there to think about? Your friend want you their for her special day.
You made the right choice. She doesn't want to be in the wedding.
2007-06-25 18:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already asked someone else you need to tell that original person that you asked someone else because she never responded to your question. She will probably get mad but you can just tell her that you kept waiting for an answer and you have to plan the wedding it was vital to know if she accepted or not and you took her silence as a way of decline. If she still wants to be in the wedding see if you can squeeze her in as a bridesmaid.
Good Luck and Congrats
2007-06-25 18:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes, it is safe to say to ask someone else.
2 months is plenty of time of communication and to say a yes or a no. Especially getting so close to the wedding date.
2007-06-26 06:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is safe to say it was a NO. What a witch she is to not answer you sooner. Hope you found the right friend to ask this time; it should be someone who is honored to be asked.
2007-06-25 18:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you ask her? If you asked via email or left her a message on her answering machine, and she hasn't replied, maybe she never got your email or voice mail. If you asked her in person and she said she'd think about it, have you tried asking again? I assume you asked a few times to get an answer. I would tell her you're asking someone else just in case, but I think it's fine that you've asked someone else if you've exhausted all options of getting in touch with her.
2007-06-26 03:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you made a wonderful choice. I would have done the same thing.
2007-06-25 18:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. 26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right!
Anyway, she should have answered immediately "Yes I would be honored to". Its not something you think about about. Strange.
2007-06-25 18:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by fizzy stuff 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pick up the phone and ask. Maybe she's never done this before and is wondering why you aren't calling.
2007-06-26 05:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she hasn't answered it is safe to go ahead and ask someone else. if she comes back upset, just tell her the truth
2007-06-25 18:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by emack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋