i think i called her some bad names when i was angry everything was perfect now she left for tennessee when she was suppose to come back next month and stay with me but all of a sudden she broke up with me leaving me in aww everything was fine how can i get her back!
2007-06-25 17:31:57 · 13 answers · asked by bs99dan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her your sorry...and mean it. If you really love her and want to be with her then you will figure out a way to get her back.
2007-06-25 17:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't that fine if you were calling her names. No girl has to stand for that and doesn't need to. And you think you called her names..... you can't even admit to it.
If you want to try and patch things up give it a week then say sorry from your heart not what is just going to make it better for the moment. Write her a letter and send it through the mail. It feels good to get a hand written addressed letter in the mail. Just opening the envelope sends a rush of thoughts of what to expect is written for you. It may be old fashioned but it sends a much bigger message and thought than just a email anyone can send.
2007-06-26 00:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by Irene K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better apologize and promise no more name calling. You need to learn how to argue. When you get upset you discuss the problem only. If you want to make someone mad, then call them names or bring up past mistakes. That isn't fair and the argument will esculate. If someone starts yelling, talk quieter and quieter. They can't yell at you if they can't hear what you're saying. Discuss-don't argue. . .keep yourself in control of the situation. . .
2007-06-26 00:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl and i use to like a guy and when i told him i liked him he way a jerk after that
when u call her names ur hurting her from the inside
she might tell u that she doesnt give a damn
but she does
when she comes back apologize and if she doesnt want to be with u again.......talk it out........
if she doesnt want to be back together....its better to have her as a friend than to not have her at all
just be friends and slowly try to win her back and dont treat like u did before......
just be cool and spend the time u have with her
2007-06-26 00:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by ^-^ midnight blossom o_0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first tell her as many times as u can tell her how srry you are! Then when she starts to talk to u more then start to get her roses and stuff she likes and make sure on the card u tell her how srry you are and how much u wish you can take the words back an how much u want her back.
2007-06-26 00:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by jake s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl always appreciates being called bad names by a man who can't control his anger. Everything was fine? I suppose you think calling her names is fine. No where in here do you mention apologizing....did you?
2007-06-26 00:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by i_b_winkn_at_u 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has enough self-respect to not stay with someone who calls her names (even when they are mad). Maybe you should take some time and work on yourself so you won't make the same mistake again.
2007-06-26 00:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try and talk to her and if you know where she is staying send flowers and tell her i am an A@@ and screwed up and send a very sweet card with the flower and ask for a second chance hope my advice works a little good luck
2007-06-26 00:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by linnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her calmly. say that you were out of your head and you didn't mean anything. and that she is the only thing that makes you happy. she means the world to you and she is your joy. you enjoy having her in your arms, etc. get gushy and stuff. girls think that its cute. but whatever you do, say it to her face, not on the phone or anything ok? and btw think up something cute like a candy sorry. like i was being a NERD and you are my ALMOND JOY and blah blah blah. it will work. good luck!
2007-06-26 00:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by jessjess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try... she wont take you... its obvious.. i know its not your hopeful answer, but its true... i know your not gunna listen to this advice, and ur gunna try some other crazy hair brained scheme and it wont work and ill say i told you so...
2007-06-26 00:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by linkin_brandon973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋