Seriously, why must guys continuously prove themselves in all ways big and small? Why do women invent drama & look for things to get upset about? Why can't they just enjoy being in a relationship without worrying about trivial stuff that doesn't matter in the end? Do you understand that it drives us absolutely crazy? Why must we constantly jump through all sorts of hoops for you? Then you wonder why we want to break up, stray, or do something else to end the relationship. Every guy fantasizes about being with a girl that is easy to get along with.
2007-06-25 17:30:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mate thats the age old question.... why!!!, they don't even know them selves, there the ones with the problems but they make your life hell and will always make you pay one way or another
2007-06-25 17:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't really do that. Some times I do make drama when I am really upset or its necessary. Most girls do it for attention. Or they just can't be happy they need the drama in there lives. Some do it because they are seeing if they can trust the guy. If he will stick by her through all this drama. That he won't stray at the first sign of drama. I don't know girls are confusing, get use to it.
2007-06-25 17:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by love_alw_693 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is fine, but we get hormnal at certain times of the month, and sometimes we feel neglected. Besides, if you do not want to jump through the hoops don't jump! If we aren't who you want, find another one. That is if you are single, if you are married, and this stuf is going on, talk it out. If you two can't fix it alone, go to a marriage counselor, if the marriage is worth trying to fix.
2007-06-25 17:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are like that. All we want is even contribruction. We have to both come half way for a relationship to work. Men have to prove themselves to us because we have to prove ourselves to them. All men and women are happening to be going through a lot more bad relationships through these years then good ones. So a lot more trust is needed these days. Think on it.
2007-06-25 17:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by aim 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump through hoops. You will end up in a circus faster than in a lasting relationship.
2007-06-25 17:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Boombastic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL some women do that because they want their man to understand and learn something once and not do that same "mistake" over and over again
Yes it is quite irritating but can u imagine a relationship that is always good, always smiles.....please u'll start wanting to pick a fight for no reason just to make it "normal"-LOL
2007-06-25 17:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Hey once these girls grow up they won't do that anymore. I know I don't make guys jump thru hoops. I know that no one is perfect and I accept the good with the bad. Maybe your just meeting the wrong girls. good luck!
2007-06-25 17:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by Jacob's Mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we want to see how much drama you will take from us. We love to see you breaking and bending your back for us. It makes us feel loved and makes us happy that we have someone that cares so much for us.
2007-06-25 17:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by babyGirl* 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
No inspite of the undeniable fact which you shouldnt limit your self to a minimum of one race. Thats close minded and you lose out on alot of possibilities. Why does it rely that they are black? in case you (a black woman) like black adult adult males and you discover one and it works out properly, particular why not? yet once you're busting your "you be attentive to what" to be with a black guy and it isnt determining, whats incorrect with exploring different techniques? i think of human beings criticize black females for this because of the fact we are able to head the extra beneficial mile to maintain a courting with a black guy whether its not susceptible to be a powerful courting. it would even have somthing to do with offspring in step with danger? particularly a lot all African individuals at this element is blended with a ton of alternative stuff (i'm area Irish, German, interior of sight American and extra) so it cant probably be approximately keeping a comfortable black inhabitants? (on the grounds that we are this way of minority). I each so often think of it is with the help of the fact black females have this way of rigidity to have the potential to hook up with a guy at an intimate point and it fairly is supposedly extra convenient to try this with a black guy? i've got confidence black females in a fashion nonetheless have a decrease self-worth each so often because of the fact it fairly is a eurocentric worldwide. Apprently, 80% of asian females of their 20s have had some form of surgical operation, in many cases on their eyelids, to make themselves seem extra ecu, and that i've got confidence it is extra widespread in Korea, the place Ulzzang is everyday (in essence, a elegance opposition to work out who seems extra white). In a worldwide the place looking eutrocentric is extra praised, i think of black females turn to black adult adult males for help. yet you will discover a point of intimacy with all of us who unearths you desirable. My long term boyfriend is latino...he loves all my black useful properties. i'm fascinated in any and each race however. So dont be so close minded! yet while black adult adult males are youre factor, decide for it!
2016-09-28 11:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys that jump thru hoops like it or they wouldnt do it and by the looks of it...those guys have longer lasting relationships
2007-06-25 17:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
not all women do this...in my experience i just let things ride and give guys space and that doesnt work either...my last bf cheated on me. sometimes a girl needs to know you are hers
2007-06-25 17:34:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋