I'm only in 9th grade, so I know its kind of young, but I reeeeally like a girl that i'm dating.
We've been going out for 1 month and we used to call each other and talk on the phone for hours... now we have like 10 minute conversations and it seems like she'd rather talk to her friends then me on myspace.
I think shes mad that i'm shy around her but thats because I like her soo much I don't know what to say. The other day we made out and ever since then she hasnt really been talking to me... did she just want to makeout with me and dump me after??
When we were first dating we had a great time talking and kissing and stuff, I fell in love =( what can I do as a last ditch effort to get her to not break up with me? I would be really depressed if she did.
2007-06-25 17:17:05 · 16 answers · asked by alpine star 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like shes bored of you now. your not keeping up to her standards so she thinks she can get a better guy because you are too easy. unfortunately, thats how women are. ive been in the same situation before and it sucks, but you gotta change your game for the good or shes gonna leave ya
sorry dude
good luck
2007-06-25 17:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by The Prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to trust her, plain and simple. Other men will be attracted to the beautiful woman she is but that doesn't mean she will be receptive. You've only been together a month, you need to give the relationship time to grow. Some women don't like to be crowded. Personally, I respect a man more if he can hold his own and be secure enough to let me be me. You will push her away if you start questioning her every move, waiting for her call and not having a life of your own. If she is just outright ignoring you - ask her about how she feels about you. Just be straight up and ask her to do the same. Don't let her lead you on just because she is so-called sexy. There are dozens of women out there who would love the attention, you seemingly want to give her. In the meantime, live your life and stop waiting by the phone. Trust me, there are a ton of other beautiful girls just waiting for their prince charming. . .don't let her treat you like a frog.
2016-05-20 22:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 Rule, Open up and be honest to her. Tell her exactly how you feel. Let her know you feel more for her and would hate to be a part from her and you hope that she is feeling the same.
If she is the kind of gal that has been with you and then wants to drop you, then she isn't worth your time anyhow. I know that is hard to hear since you seem to have fallen for her (by the way sex can do that to ya), but you do need to protect your own heart and values regarding finding a companion.
You sound like a good person who deserves someone really good. You gotta open up and tell her how you feel though or she will not understand.
Hugs to you and good luck on finding love...
2007-06-25 17:23:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be as unsure of herself as you are of yourself. When your doing the making out you need to say the right stuff. Call her up and tell her you miss her. Or tell her what you told everyone here. If she's embarrassed or whatever, don't worry. You need to get to know all types of people before you really settle down to one. You need to get experience with all types of people and then you will have the confidence to be yourself in a relationship. When you start thinging about being shy, just push that out of your mind-do not dwell-and keep talking. Pretty soon you won't remember that you're shy because you won't be. It all takes time and experience. You will love many people in many ways.
2007-06-25 17:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though she is trying to ditch you, maybe it is because you are too shy--- well, let's just say I avoided my boyfriend and broke up with im quite a few times cuz he was shy around me in high school--- he gave me my space, and didn't act like he cared or liked me when I did avoid him of course I went back to him, and now we;ve been together for 10 yrs now (high school sweethearts)...and we're married for 5 yrs and we have three kids:) There's hope but my best advice to you-- act as though you don't care, and stop calling her and initiating conversation with her, she'll come back if she's the one;)
2007-06-25 17:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by Kristina E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if shes stuck up then yes, youre right
but if not, then maybe she feels insecure around you now that this happened. And maybe th reason she might not talk is that you might not have anything to talk about, or , again, she feels insecure. I think that you should straightened things out by talking. I tell that to my friends and they dont beleive me and by the time thing s get worst in ther situation, they regret not talking.
2007-06-25 17:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by tiny_lil_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only in 9 grade you have a long way to go. As you grow you will find more woman keep your head up.
2007-06-25 17:24:46 · answer #7 · answered by diddyvi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow man. If it doesn't work out, life goes on. You'll learn that pretty quick. Be a man, don't wallow in your desperation. If she doesn't want you, move on. Someone else will, and you'll like them way better, I swear.
2007-06-25 17:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL relationships start out excitedly!
Of course you were talking for hours at first! you were both excited to be together!
I think she still likes you. . .but you can be very nice about it and ask "what she thinks of your relationship"
2007-06-25 17:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think any of us can really help you, and we don't want to discourage you. Talk to her about your relationship. See what she's planning on doing for the future. We can suggest to you what we think, but it means nothing if it wasn't even what she was thinking.
2007-06-25 17:24:59 · answer #10 · answered by fishdude404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋