If you had a good idea that a family member (very close family member) is cheating on their spouse (also very close)? Yes, there is good information on this.
2007-06-25 16:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by GA Peach 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have evidence.
2007-06-25 17:09:19 · update #1
Wow - Michelle - way to get excited about this! You don't see empathy? Well, silly this is written word, not spoken. Ulterior motives? omg - who do you think you are Nancy Drew or Freud?
2007-06-25 17:49:46 · update #2
mind your own business. No, really, I'm not being a smart alec. No matter what you try to do, it will back fire on you and you will be the bad guy. If it's true, the spouse will figure it out on their own, and you can offer a shoulder to lean on. If it isn't true, and you say something, your dis owned.
2007-06-25 17:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by randy 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If it were such a close family member I would ask another close family member whether you should confront the spouse who is cheating. Not the one who is being cheated on.
I would definitely do not confront your friend who is being cheated on.
In all probability the person knows or is suspicious already, and would rather not make an issue out of it at this time, and is just biding her time till she takes the matter in her own hands.
I am sure their are children involved so it is a life altering decision on how you approach this issue, if at all. Do not be hasty. Truth to tell the whole issue can backfire on you altogether, and you will end up being a home-breaker.
I just read your addition, that you have evidence. SO WHAT!!
Does that make any difference. The person might have evidence too.
I have not noticed any sympathy, or empathy in your question for you "close family member" who is being cheated on. Do you have ulterior motives??? Think about it carefully, and be honest with yourself.
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I just read your little note to me. I think I hit a nerve.
I don't think I am either one, Frued, or Nancy Drew. I just wrote what I observed. I don't see where I am excited about
It. However, even though "this is the written word, and not spoken", there are words in the dictionary that do display empathy, and emotions. You did use a word "wow" in your note to me. That is a descriptive word (to your credit) expressing an emotion. Good for you.
I would have e-mailed you to reply to your little note, but you don't allow it.
Have a good day.
2007-06-26 00:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you had a good idea that a family member (very close family member) is cheating on their spouse (also very close)? Yes, there is good information on this.
2007-06-26 00:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes ti is best to leave them deal with therir own relationships that way you dont get dragged down when things EXPLODE
2007-06-26 00:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get evidence and tell them.
2007-06-26 00:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay out of it. You'll be in trouble. Let people deal with their own lives and their own ****
2007-06-26 00:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetkat 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i would get evidence so they would believe me!
2007-06-26 00:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't not tell them but its going to be hard.
just tell her/him what you believe is true, and see what happens.
2007-06-26 00:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋