Recently my girlfriend and I wake up and chat with eachother until we find something to do and than we do it and come back home. When we come back home she always expects me to get online and chat with her for the rest of the day. When i go hang out with my friends or play a hobbie because my friends called to see if i want to. I come back and she tells me i choose my friends over her. This is really annoying me because i spend about every living moment with her. Everyday i see her for at least 4 hours and sometimes i go out with my friends after and when i do my girlfriend gets mad or say i choose them over her. help me!!! I need my own space too!
2007-06-25 16:48:50 · 11 answers · asked by shaolintou 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell her how you really feel about the subject
and that she should try spending sometime
with someone other than you and by that her own
friends they might feel left out
and if she really loves you she has to understand that
guys need guy time like girls need girl time
2007-06-25 16:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy. Tell her that you think highly of her and you aren't choosing anyoneover her, but you cannot have your friends start to dislike her because you spend all of your time with her. Tell her that if things are going to work out, you cannot stayed tied to a computer. Invite her to hang out with your friends some time. If you do not alter this habit, it will only become worse. Turn it around on her if you have to.Question why she wants you on the computer all the time, who is she talking to on there, why is she on all the time?? Make a guilt trip of, "You don't trust me" Make her see that her doing this to you is because she doesnt trust you. and wants to hog you for herself (but dont say that part)Tell her your friends have always been there for you and you cannot cut all connections just because you got a girlfriend now.
2007-06-25 16:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by ~ Angie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be honest with her and tell her how u feel. That's about the only thing u can do? Set some boundaries, cuz u both need some space. And, she's prolly like that cuz she's happy when she's with u. Ur actually a very lucky man. Good luck I hope everything works out for ya!
2007-06-25 16:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know...
Suggest that she spend time with her friends as well...
You are right on...we need relationships outside of our relationships in order to be healthy!
Girls have a very bad habit of making our relationships our whole lives! That is where girls run into trouble! Talk to her about but don' t attack her and choose your words wisely! There is no choosing...that is BS.
2007-06-25 16:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her about how you feel. Relationships are about communication and compromise. Tell her exactly what you just told us!!
We all need our space... we all need our own time with other people... she needs to realize that you spend a lot of time with her already and that you just want to give your friends attention too.
2007-06-25 16:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get her own friends and hobbies, or she will need to get a new boyfriend.
2007-06-25 16:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without playing games, don’t be available 100% of the time or let your life be an open book. A man that comes on too strong or doesn’t have outside interests will scare a woman away just as much as it would if the circumstances were reversed. Read here http://AttractAnyWoman.emuy.info/?110q
Women don’t want to feel as though they are completely responsible for your happiness and that is what it feels like when the other person has no outside interests. Men who are overeager or jump when the woman says jump are the ones who are more likely to end up in the friend zone. This doesn’t mean that you should play the game of not calling for a few days; it means that you should set healthy boundaries until you both naturally find a spot for the other in your lives.
2017-02-15 19:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by whalen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the man and show her what you want out of the relationship. Don't get whipped.
2007-06-25 16:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by Musically Minded 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditto!
2007-06-25 16:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetkat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then find someone who isn't so needy...because needy becomes needier the more you feed the need...
2007-06-25 16:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋