ok I have a boyfrined, but...... I`can't talk to him. HELP!!!!!!!
2007-06-25 15:51:32 · 22 answers · asked by lauren r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow fifth grade love lol whats going on here? your boyfriend should be your best friends, these lets be lovers before we even know eachother and i mean know know each other here is a quiestion can you answer it, what is his favorite child hood past time?
best friend to boyfriend is how you find love if you cant talk to him you cant love him, yo love his body but you really dont know him if you cant talk to him
2007-06-25 15:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Here i am 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's your boyfriend and you cant talk to him i think that theres a deeper question that you need to ask yourself. do you mean that you cant talk to him like about your issues, or you cant talk to him period? if you cant talk to him about your issues, that will come with time, dont expect that just because he is your boyfrined that you will be able to trust him with everything and be totally comfortable with him. If you cant talk to him period...maybe your not with the right person? or not ready for a relationship involving speach
2007-06-25 15:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, i dont know that i totally understand what you are asking, but i will say that if you cant talk to your boyfriend, than there is def a problem. if you arent comfortable enough to have a conversation with a boyfriend, than he isnt the one for you. im sorry if that seems harsh, but that is all that i can conclude from this question. If you cant talk to him because you are simply nervous, start out talking to him online or over the phone or something, then gradually build your confidence to tell him things you want to say in person, actually in person. maybe you can express to him over the phone or internet that you get nervous around him, and maybe he can help you, IDK?
2007-06-25 15:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldn't be your boyfriend if you can't talk to him. my suggestion is to say you aren't ready but would rather be friends for now then build a friendship when things are sailing then go for the date. you sound pretty young. trust me if you are just wait for the relationship if you've got a friend you'll get more from that in the long run. good luck, sweety!
2007-06-25 15:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not the right guy for you.
If you truly love him, you can talk to him as a bestfriend.
Or your probably just nervous about it.
Try to.
Or else
Find someone your comfortable around and know how to talk to.
2007-06-25 15:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be more specific.
Focus on why you feel you can't talk to him...
Are you afraid of what he will think...is he difficult to talk to...is he judgmental...what is the deal? Is it something specific about yourself that you are afraid to share? Until you can determine what your fear(s) is/are you aren't going to be able to solve the problem!
2007-06-25 15:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh?! that's weird but why? Well if you can't talk to him there's an old saying "action speaks louder than words" just show what you really mean to him.
2007-06-25 15:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just spend a day where you two set aside everything andjust get to know each other.
Maybe go out to dinner or something.
2007-06-25 15:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by grac3l1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was the way i was with my first boyfriend. i was always afraid i would say the wrong thing around him and he would think iam werid. u just have to get used to it. if it helps so there aren't ackward moments. think of subjects to talk about before u start talking to him. and email him.
2007-06-25 15:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-01 05:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋