ever been betrayed?

Question

I live in a household where all my family ever dose is argue and they never get along.We cant even go out and have a nice time without jumping down each others throtes.Me and my youngest sister are the only one out of a 9 member family that always get along.I try my hardest to keep everyone clam and i try to help these situations as much as i can.But theres not much i can do when theres 6 other people going against me at times like this.Dose anyone have any advice for me and any ideas to try to fix some of these problems?

Answer 1

well, it's kind of hard to give suggestions because I don't know how old you are. I do know this, It doesn't matter how big the house is having that many ppl living under 1 roof can be overwhelming. I would start to distance yourself. When other family members get into it, then stay out of it-as a matter of fact walk away from it. Find things to do outside the home so your gone more often. Go to bookstores and just sit and read. Find something relaxing. If your still in school, then educate yourself to get a job that will able you 2 not have 2 live like that 4 the rest of your life. Stay mind strong and try not to get more involved then what you have 2. Tempers will be flying with that many ppl in 1 living situation. Remember, they're family and you love them but you don't have to suffer because of them. Good luck

Answer 2

YES --- an Adult Child WILLINGLY HELPED my ex (from a decade and half ago -- their father, who is a violent/abusive sociopath) to BURGLARIZE My HOME in August 2006.

I've gotten my peace with this situation -- I filed the police report, identified the ex and the adult child who did the burglary, provided the police with samples of their handwriting to match the evidence, and DEMANDED that they be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law.

They made their CHOICES .. and that choice was to be CRIMINALS. That is what adults do -- make choices and then LIVE with the Benefits or CONSEQUENCES of their choices.

So at this time ... I walked away ... live MY LIFE and enjoy it much more now -- especially as an Empty-Nesing Single Retiree! I FINALLY am taking care of the one person who never was taken care of ... ME!