What is the minimum amount of time should a couple date before getting intimate?

Question

Hey guys, I am the girl! And we have been dating for a little more than 9 months

I do want to wait, but he is getting a little impatient and I'm not sure I want to :"do it" just to hang on to him....

Answer 1

there are no rules --- it depends on the couple and how they feel for and about each other --- best wishes

Answer 2

INTIMATE????? -->> As in SEX?

Or INTIMATE -->> as in involved a "relationship"??

SEX and affection . . . whenever they both want.

But any woman (or man) who dives into a RELATIONSHIP without waiting at LEAST 3 months . . . is CRAZY. No matter how strong the desire.

10-12 dates abosolute minimum . . . and the guy should not SEE her more than once a week . . . nor SPEAK to her more than twice a week MAX.

. . . Unless he is begging for her to call him "NEEDY".

:)

Answer 3

3 months

Answer 4

Dating is not for getting intimate. It's about learning who the person is..likes, dislikes, goals in life, learning their heart, what's important to them, etc. Intimacy comes after you say, "I do"...but maybe you want to marry someone who's been intimate with 100's!

Answer 5

at least 2 dates

Answer 6

It depends. If you are 85 go for it the same day, because you never know, what the next day has to bring.

Answer 7

Physically or emotionally/mentally? I think that e/m intimacy should progress at a leisurely pace and so should the physical stuff. Or do you just mean sex?

Answer 8

I'd say 3 months i commited the mistake of doing it early now he wants it everyday. make shure that, that is not all that person wants from you.

Answer 9

when both people feel comfortable and ready to be intimate with eachother

Answer 10

till your married