any tricks on how to deal with a stubborn 2yr old kid?

Answer 1

it would be better if you could describe what this 2 year old child is doing.

Answer 2

Consistency is the key, my daughter is soo stubborn and we finally had to get a grip on it. You have to act EVERY time, no matter how tired or frustrated you are act and only give 1 warning then act. We used the corner, I found it most effective on her, and I did have to hold her there many times crying along with her.. Also the corner, time out etc dont start until they are quiet. You also take a toy or whatever away and put it where they can see it, but not get it. Them being able to see it, sinks in more that they need to be good to get it back. I kept our daughter's (at 3) for 1 night and day, and if she repeated the behavior I took another, once she had 15 things up there. And she had to behave for a whole day to get them back. It took 3 weeks and it was long and loud LOL. But she did get it and it was so much better on all of us once we got control of her. And once he/she is doing better, do not slack off because then you set yourself back a mile. She is now 6 and still if we slack off she starts behaving in the same manner, I always tell myself that her stubborness will be a good survival skill later in life, if I can survive it first LOL
And be sure that when he/she is behaving or when you tuck them in at night, you reassure them that you love them no matter what, even when they are bad. I tell her I dont like the way you act, but I always love you.
Sleep is also key to her bahavior and stubborness, if she is tired she is much worse. And sugar plays a role in her attitude if she has not had a substansial meal first and then it still has to be limited. My oldest was never bothered by sugar, but like they say each kid is different. Also the more I yell the more she pushes, so take a deep breath, give the warning and act on it, instead of yelling (if you do).

Answer 3

Well, I think stubborn is in the definition for 2 year old in the dictionary. Basically you just have to be firm and consistent. Designate a place for time out and plop their little behind down in it when they get an attitude or misbehave. Two isn't 2 young to be learning the rules. Have patience and pray alot, I find that got me through to 3 at least :)

Answer 4

There is generally nothing you can really do as the terrible two's are reknown. But be aware that I call them the "triple terrible threes". lol

This is my best advice after going through this 3 times. Keep a regular schedule. Up at the same time every day. Bed time at a specific time. Meals like clockwork. Nap every day. Speak softly and never yell or grab. Be firm, assertive, and quiet and gentle. Never ask, just do it. Give lots of hugs and kisses. Listen and ask questions. Give her/him physical exercise every single day. And wait it out. Things get better around the age of 4.

Answer 5

You are the boss. Time-out. Take away a favorite toy. Spank him. It is NOT abuse, it's punishment that has been used and WORKED for all of time. You are the boss. Make sure he knows it. Let him throw himself on the floor and throw a temper tantrum. People always give in when they do that... but it's never hurt one of them yet.

Answer 6

Welllll, since spanking is out of the question, threaten to tickle them until they turn red in the face...then if they don't comply, tickle away...it works really well in line at the grocery store.

Gets chuckles from the people behind you too.

Answer 7

Don't argue or try to convince the kid. This is recipe for disaster. Just be sympathetic but firm.

Answer 8

Reverse phsycology but remember that you have to build a stong bond of disiplin Good luck

Answer 9

watch Nanny911
really good show for parents to learn parenting skills.

Answer 10

bribe them with candy, coke, and toys.
they should start lessening if you do not give them it all the time.