I'm fallin apart. Any tips anybody?

Question

id give details but i only have 970 characters to work with. trust me im doing you guys a favor by not ranting on. just any adivce you can give i'd appreciate. its like everything i have is being ruined lately.

Answer 1

Are you pulling my leg?

If you are literally falling to pieces, as you have so eloquently put it, you must be starting to think your going nuts! But seriously,
aren't you feeling a little alarmed yet? After all, this is not exactly what you'd call the norm is it?

If you hesitate too much longer, you may find your mouth has disappeared along with whatever else has already jumped ship and abandoned your body! YOU NEED your mouth TO TELL THE DOCTOR ALL ABOUT YOUR PREDICAMENT!

Hmmmm...advice.....Well, I've never heard of this strange, yet intriguing phenomenon. Yep, It's safe to say I am well and truly gob-smacked...rendered speechless really.... .. No pun intended, by the way.

I'm not too familiar in the area of Strange and Bizarre Phenomena, so sadly I can't even tip you off on a good Specialist in the field. I'd encourage you to find one though!!!

Just curious, is it your whole body, or do your body parts simply fall at random without warning?

Ummmm......Keep calm, and if you are still walking skedaddle too! If arms are safely intact, use them to Power-walk -it'll speed things up.

Sorry, it's all I had......Heh, actually there is one positive aspect you could focus on - you may not have the same body as before, but luckily enough, you needn't bother changing your user name. It sums you up brilliantly in three little words!!!

Miss "'CAN'T TOUCH ME"'. Yes it suits you. Unique. Very apt I thought, and well planned out - but how did you know???

Bizarre.........I guess it's not altogether too hard to believe you have psychic abilities, especially after your body started acting up... ..

Perfect insight for dealing with those out-of-the-blue situations. Just say, for example, an arm goes astray and annoyingly pops off without notice, leaving you nothing to pick up the pile of body parts in a heap on the floor.

You are psychic now, and can plan ahead.....invest in some prosthetic body parts to add to the wardrobe.

Hope your pieced back together soon.

Answer 2

I would say to always remember that we have very little control over most things in our life. Usually, when things are going poorly, it's just that our expectations are not being met.

If that's the case, then it's our expectations that are letting us down, and NOT the circumstances themselves. So maybe work on modifying your expectations a bit.

Just try to let go of this illusion of control that we have, try your best, and accept whatever comes your way as a learning experience.

We have 100% control over our efforts, and 0% control over their results.

I don't know what your problems exactly are, but I hope you found some of what I wrote to be of help.

Just know that you're never alone, and the Lord will always give you what you NEED, whether you WANT it or not. And that right there is what separates a loving parent from a fun uncle.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Have you always been like this or is it just since you have been pregnant? Remember your hormones are all over the place at the moment, and this may make you irrational at times. I'm 7 months pregnant and I've been awful to my husband sometimes!! If you have always been like this, it sounds like you are really insecure. Have you been hurt in a previous relationship, did someone treat you badly or cheat on you? If so, remember that you have a different man now and they are not all the same. Paranoia and jealousy can really drive someone away, sit down with your man and talk to him about how you are feeling. I really think there is a deeper rooted problem here and you really need to talk to someone about it, share your troubles. Your boyfriend sounds like a lovely man, show him how ,much you love him and tell him what a great Dad he is going to make, he needs to feel appreciated. Good luck with the baby and all the best for the future.

Answer 4

First, change your way of thinking. Think of only things that have virtue and praise. Think of your family. Think of what you want God to be. Do something that preoccupies you or something that gets your mind off troubles.
Find something you have a passion for. Do something you know you do well. Since I don't know you, it has to be something legal like yoga , cycling, cooking, etc. Soon, you could be a yoga instructor or a good cook and you could entertain familly and friends. This sounds silly but find your happy place.
I live with some physical pain. I have asthma from time to time and I do not want to go into details about my other ailments. I just cross-stitch or I do math problems to get my mind off of it. Sometimes, I do it well, other times I do not.
I get better at it everyday.
If you are going through difficult times and you have done all you can, let go and live. Think of only virtue , praise and of course, love.

Answer 5

Ah, I'm sorry. We all have those times. Take some time to do something that refreshes you. Take a walk outside, enjoy some time with friends, take a hot bath, read a good book, pray, write in your journal. Remember, it won't last forever. Sometimes when it seems like that in life, it means that some new things are waiting to be born. Feel free to email me if you want, most of these people are wankers. Peace

Answer 6

I don't know your particular situation, but trust me, I know what you are going through. The best thing to do is take a systematic approach to your life.

Sit down and list all of the bad things that have happened to you. Look at each individual situation and determine the best course of action, what you could possibly do to rectify it.

Then, to the best of your abilities, write down WHY they happened. Its true that some misfortunes are just random with no cause, but most of the things that go wrong in our lives are a result of something that we do. Can you identify any destructive behavior in your life?

Doing this will help you not only to begin fixing what has already happened, but will also help you identify behaviors that cause problems in your life.

Answer 7

Life at times grinds us big time, but we don't need to believe we are falling apart. One thing Paul wrote helps me, about how nothing can separate us from the love of God, or God's love. This earthly existence tries to continually bring us down, but if we have faith and understanding, then we are safe and don't have to let our thought believe things that are not so.
It is amazing, but the trials here never seem to cease, but they will at length because we will no longer have a need of what we are going through now. Be strong and keep the faith.

Answer 8

You could try looking at it as though you cant go down any further-so the only way to go is up. Write down everything that's happened to you and see if you can figure out why it went wrong. Then work on a plan to change the way you do things. Do whatever you can to be a success at whatever you do. Read-listen-focus every available minute on making your life better.

Answer 9

I would love to know more about what you are going through, so I can try to give you specific advise (it is possible I have gone through some of the things you are trying to deal with right now). The one thing that I know you can do is have faith and trust that the GOD is going to bring you through this trial. Make sure you keep yourself surround by positive people that will encourage you and let you know that GOD will never give you more than you can bear! Pray and talk it out with GOD and others. I don't know if we are allowed to email from this site, if it is OK then please feel free to email me to talk.

Answer 10

If the worst thing that can happen is that you die, then anything that doesn't have to do with the loss of your next breath isn't that big of a deal. Relax. Enjoy. That last breath comes too soon to spoil the ones inbetween.
In the words of a surfer friend of mine.
"Don't sweat the small sh*t"