heres the deal, my ex and i were you know involved, ok we were intimate, we went out even after we broke up, then at a party i met this really cute guy, he seems nice, I like him but it seems as if i call him more than he calls, me with my ex i could call him and most times he'd be right over, he cooks great meals for us, we have fun, i broke up with him becasue he kept looking at other woeman, and i lost my trust in him, hes a great guy too despite my insecurites, when i cry he holds me and says things will be fine..he knows all about my past and is able to deal with it, if i told another guy they might not get me or understand me, I need to just be friends with my ex and i want to talk to the other guy,,yet he never calls should i be patient and wait for his call, or just talk to my ex..?
2007-06-25 11:22:02 · 7 answers · asked by skygodess003 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
New guy probably doesn't want your excess baggage and that's why he doesn't call. Just go stay in your room waiting on your ex.
2007-06-25 11:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on the rebound. You miss the affection and all the other good things your ex did that made you feel good.
This other guy, if he really wanted to get to know you he would be callin you more then you are callin him. So stop callin him see if he calls. If he does then great, but dont be easy. Its really hard to play hard to get when you are on the rebound because you are so quick to get affection and love that you give in. That NEVER Works...unless the guy is madly in love with you. Which it does not sound like he does.
Take a deep breath. Enjoy bein single…you do not want to rush into things. IT is very lonely at times, but you will at least get more time with friends and family, the ones who usually bring less drama then some boy. And right now you are an easy target for a PLAYER to play you. And trust me being newly single and weak because you are alone you DO NOT I repeat DO NOT need to have your heart broken by a player. They will tell you ANYTHING and everything any girl would LOVE to hear just to get what they want out of you. Right now you cannot trust anyone..unless they are your family and LONG term friends.
2007-06-25 18:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mandi R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dumped because he kept looking at other women, I get upset when my bf does too, but its not like he is making out with them in front of you, wait for your ex, sounds like a decent guy. He is a guy, he will look no matter what, he has eyes, I bet you know a good looking gal when you see one, and of course you dont oogle over them, but he cant help himself. They will always look, your new man will look, so if you cant accept the fact that there is other women on this planet, then dont date, women will always be around, go see a therapist, your kind of crazy.
2007-06-25 18:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by jen w 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say gte back with your EX. This new guy seems kinda like a jerk, when your ex seems like a great guy. Look, all guys look at other woman. But just because they look, doesnt mean they love them. It seems like he likes you. Give him a chnace...dont get mad at him for just being a guy.
2007-06-25 18:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds stupid to me. Ex's are X's they cannot be friends if you wanna have another bf, it ruins relationships. either be wit your ex or cut the tie completely. leave the other guy alone so you don't ruin his life wit yours n your past.
2007-06-25 18:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by DJ Furious-e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about it!
Move on. Find yourself! Be independent! When you truly love yourself than you can truly love and be loved in return. It's called Karma.
Good Luck
Peace
2007-06-25 18:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by moondego 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey Pinky
ALL men look at other women
If he loves you, I mean really loves you, then he wants you to be happy with or without him.
2007-06-25 18:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋