PLEASE ANYBODY! I HAVE 8 KIDS AND I AM GOING NUTS! I DO NT KNOW IF I AM DOING ANYTHING RIGHT?
PLEASE HELP ME, I AM A YOUNG MOM...I NEED ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-25 09:13:15 · 24 answers · asked by ceel 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Young mom and 8 kids don't go together.
You need to clarify what you're doing wrong or think you're doing wrong. You can't just say "I AM CLUELESS!" because after 8 kids, you would think that you would have SOME clue.
2007-06-25 09:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well there are a couple of sites I'm going to point you toward. One is about child-training www.nogreaterjoy.org and the others is www.aboverubies.org for quiverful families. Knowing other families that have large children, I know it's gonna be okay. You didn't really specify your problem, but the first website I gave you could change your life. Order their book To Train Up a Child which is only five dollars and that will get you started. If you feel like you are going out of your mind, then please get someone to come and help you. And order that book and then train your kids and you won't be going crazy anymore. I got it when my kids were 1,2,3 and it changed everything. I hope this helps. Go to the article section and you can look up specific situations you are having. God Bless! And take a deep breath! www.myspace.com/allison729
2007-06-25 09:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Truthteller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but shouldn't you have thought about this before popping 8 kids out? I cant even handle my two sometimes. My advice it to get your tubes tied and then see if you can find a teen or someone else that can help you around the house. You need to be able to have some free time for yourself once in awhile or you will go insane. Good luck I really feel for you.
2007-06-25 09:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read your profile and it looks like you are only 12. You asked, " Why do parents hate myspace, are they for real?" and " IS 12 too young to have a myspace", "My room is my favorite place to be, how bout you?" and "Is this girl really my friend?" Your other name on here is "Lipgloss". Young mom indeed as 12 is WAY too young to have 8 kids. Stop wasting these good people's time answering your B.S questions and go play with the dolls you asked YA about for that dollhouse you were building.
2007-06-25 09:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
a young mom with eight kids,
YOU DESERVE A MEDAL, for coping with that many.
Trust you instincts.
Try to smile. (even if it is through gritted teeth some days)
If they are all about the same age, find something for them to do together. That won't start a fight, or annoy you.. So no Monopoly, families always fight during that.
lots of so called experts give different and conflicting advice.
Do what feels right for you.
2007-06-25 09:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by steven m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand what you are doing wrong or right...how old are you to be a young mom with 8 kids?
2007-06-25 09:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by Aubree's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young and 8 kids? Good job.
2007-06-25 11:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by Rene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will pray for you, Just love all them the same. Set up time out, and purnishment when needed. schedule tv hours together, play cards, Have family timing.
Look for a Boys and Girls that they can attend or some kind of programs that offer to children's. Find sometime for yourself or u will go nuts. Good Luck.
2007-06-29 06:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. I don't have an answer but I feel you. I have 4 and I am completly lost. How did you get 8 kids?
2007-06-25 09:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by Tammy P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have 8 kids??
Im steppin' out on a limb here but Birth control MAY help.. a little.
2007-06-25 09:17:26 · answer #10 · answered by xbadlydrawngirlx 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋