it is said its haraam to have oral sex but what can a wife do if her husband asks her again and again to do so???
2007-06-25 08:56:46 · 6 answers · asked by kudos_009 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I think it is allowed for the most part so long as no fluid is ingested. If it is being ingested, then I think it is alright to put your foot down and say no.
2007-06-25 09:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What ever is Haram and not allowed in Islam , and any Muslim (Both Man and woman) has right to refuse.
In Islam it responsibility of both partners to satisfy each other by all legal and affordable means from Islamic point of view.
Further as brother Khalid mentioned above in Islam Woman has all the rights first to accept or reject any proposal or request.
Islam is natural and just for every human being.
2007-06-25 17:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She would need to make a decision as to which is more important: religious doctrine or fulfilling her husband's desires.
Even better--ask him which one is more important and see what he says. If he chooses himself, then he no longer can have any complaints if she chooses to ignore *other* religious doctrines.....
2007-06-25 16:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not Haram (prohibited) but Makrooh (not desirable) as I know. Personally I find it disgusting and in no account I accept it. It is not humanly at all !!
Peace!
2007-06-25 16:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by Eve 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its makrooh.
maybe i find it disgusting for woman to do oral sex for man.
but is it also disgusting for man to do oral sex to woman.
its a good way to satify woman especially if the man suffer from premature ejaculation.
2007-06-25 17:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
she refuses... and seeks help from anyone.. family, friend... she can also ask a judge for a divorce in which case she is granted imediatly....
as for the husband.. he is a sick bas@#$rd..... may he ask forgiveness from God...
BTW: Islam is the first religion to let women have their own seperate rights from men,, own here property, right to vote,, to represent and to be a vital player in the society...
and i bet you... you did not know that a woman can ask for a divorce in a court and get it ... sometimes for reason like " i dont like him" ....
2007-06-25 16:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋