I just went through the worst 6 years of my life and now im realizing that my ex wants to be with my little 18 year old cousin. She is very unattractive but has big breasts. Why would someone hurt me like that and is there any men out there that will not always choose someone younger?
2007-06-25 08:50:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it starts with upbringing, he lies and lies and lies and everybody except me knows the truth and I think it sucks that when I tried to speak with his mother about the way he was tearing apart everyone in my family, I realized that I was the only fool that thought he was decent, a decent man wouldn't lie, he would be honest and just say who he wants. And I made sure I let his mom know how messed he his and she didn't care, probably because she wants him that way, basically what he did was played with my heart for a while, used the internet to stalk and harass me and the whole time HE has been the one sleeping with her and now I have no idea, I wonder if I could sue him for my pain and suffering while he was lying to me while she was probably sitting on his lap?
2007-06-25 11:51:00 · update #1
Hey keep your chin up... They think grass is greener in the other side of the fence and sometimes they realize what they dont have anymore. Yeah there are good men out there and one will find you . Younger isnt better but they have to find that out on their own. no matter how much you love them you cant control the descecions they make .(although it would be nice sometimes to help). Good luck!!
2007-06-25 08:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you but i would say you met someone that would lie to you thats it. I have enough friends that are in relationships full of lies. I just kept my eyes open and i never had a problem. I guess especially in the US here a lot of girls go like yea i had my fun when i was young and so do the guys. Everyone learns to lie to get laid at that age and after it really depends on who you are able to fish out of that dirty pool of almost everyone sticking around to have a "little more" fun. I know someone in my family that lied so much i could not trust a sentence coming out of her mouth. No one could sense it but she stayed away from me cuz she knew that i knew and i put her on the spot a few times so she never came close to me - and guess what it was my granny lol.Do what you want to do with this situation - its bad but youll get over it and it will be hard ofcourse but most of all stop learning not to trust people because when the real person will come along you will not be able to trust him fully and he will sense it eventually.
2007-06-26 16:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by dooood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW this sounds like deja vu..my hubby did the same exact thing to me..except he cheated on me with my cousin while we was together.shes the same age as me.not at all pettier..men are just fuc king stupid..they dont care about you..even tho i was stupid enough to forgive him and her..but she told me the truth he didnt..they didnt have sex just played around..but still in all hes lucky i stuck around..and now its been almost 6 and a half years and we get along great and i get along with my cousin good as i did b4 but it took a while..im still not over it but ya know...your best bet is too leave him alone cuz most men dont change being a cheater..i got lucky but dont let it happen..good luck with you situation i feel for you
2007-06-25 16:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They lie the same reason women do.
They would hurt you like that probably because they are shallow.
Yes. They are out there.
There are so many more people out there that you haven't met yet. Now stop feeling sorry for yourself and get out there! Someone's waiting for you.
2007-06-25 15:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by MetalHeart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never mentioned how well they get along. Maybe other factors are at work here. If he has any moral fiber, a relationship based on physical attributes will never work. Besides, as mentioned above, dishonesty knows no gender preference.
2007-06-25 16:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We want older when we are 18 to 23. We want younger when we are 24 to 90.
Sorry...
2007-06-25 15:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by CoorsHeavy™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha, my ole lady is 10 years older. Older women make better *Wifes*
2007-06-25 15:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by ck33181 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had a bad experience with a jerk. Don't let it make you think that all men are that way. They are not.
2007-06-25 16:03:48 · answer #8 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human beings can be very selfish. Its not restricted to men.
2007-06-25 15:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋