My boyfriend of only 3 months lived in PA and was about to get evicted, everyday tellin me how he hates his job and dont have enough money to pay the bills after child support. So he decides he is gonna quit his job with no notice. I told him I didnt mind him coming to live with me in WV but make sure he really wanted to quit his job. After the first few weeks and his kids (ages 5,13,13,18) visiting. It was overwhelming he didnt have a birth certificate so no quick job, we had the cable upgraded and now no money for that, he was denied unemployment, everything was overwhelming and it got the best of me. So I told him that I thought it was best we call it quits and he could stay with family . I felt bad but he was gonna be evicted anyway. Now he blames me for not having a job and said that I was wrong, but he really shouldnt have assumed so much when we didnt know each of for such a short time. OK! there are more details but with these alone was I wrong for callin it quits early?
2007-06-25 08:22:25 · 2 answers · asked by suzzybella68 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a mooch and a loser and you were smart to get rid of him. I'm surprised you put up with him for several weeks! I hope you realize that, in the future, listen to all the alarm bells that must have been going off with this guy. You need to be with a man who is self-sufficient, not someone looking for someone to take care of him.
2007-06-25 08:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by majormomma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suzzybella, No way was you wrong ! Not to be nasty but he doesn"t sound like the responsible man he should be after having four kids !
2007-06-25 08:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋