2007-06-25 07:59:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Christ said "If you so much as look at a woman with lust, it's the same as commiting adultery."
So if he's said that you look hawt, its as if you've ALREADY done it, in Christs eyes. You might as well get the technicality out of the way, since you're already condemned.
2007-06-25 08:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by Laptop Jesus 3.9 7 · 10⤊ 6⤋
Hard to say. The myth of premarital relations being a sin is one created by organized false Christians and not specifically in the Bible. For example, 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 is usually sourced when saying that premarital relations are wrong. Which is far from the truth.
You won't burn in sulphur for engaging in acts of love.
2007-06-25 08:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by vjg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to find someone who is a little more lenient about religion. Clearly you do not have the same level of faith as this person, and you are going to disagree on a lot of things. Many Christians are fine with pre-marital sex... but this person is holding you to a higher standard. I can't even believe you are considering getting married if you have such a basic disagreement about faith. Many things can be overcome in a marriage, but I don't think I've ever seen it work when two people disagree about religion.
2007-06-25 08:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by polly_peptide 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your boyfriend feels strongly about something like that, you should respect him, not try to trick him into having sex with you. As for loopholes, there are none. You can't have sex unless you are married in most Christian faiths. I am not against sex before getting married, hell, I would suggest it to make sure the other person knows how to ring your bell, but tricking someone into sleeping with you? That is really low....I hope your boyfriend gets a clue about what type of person you REALLY are and finds someone who cares about him enough to respect him and his beliefs.
2007-06-25 08:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by cailincox 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no loophole. If he doens't want to don't make him. Respect him the same way you would want to be respected.
Now, if sex is that improtant to you find another guy. there are plenty who would love to have premarital relations. Pressuring him is just mean.
I know where you're coming from...
2007-06-25 08:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nope. No loopholes...geez women are as bad as men these days..what is so wrong with Not having sex? Leave the guy alone and don't pressure him, if he doesn't want to have sex and you do then dump him and find someone else. We are not supposed to be yoked with unbelievers anyway..do the guy a favor and unyoke him...(I am sure you are a lovely girl and a very nice person, but to me this is just a ridiculous train of thought and question)
2007-06-25 08:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole B 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Doesn't sound like you care for him very much if you are trying to get him to go against something he believes strongly. I'd hope he wouldn't do that just for such a selfish little girl.
I don't have a problem personally with premarital sex, but I do have a problem with such a lack of respect for your significant other.
2007-06-25 08:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
no loophole. and with what LaptopJesus said, now you're committing the sin twice, pre-meditatively.
there aren't any loopholes. I just don't get what part of "no" is so hard for some people to get...
2007-06-25 08:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by Hey, Ray 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
there are no loopholes. the only thing to do is to get him to marry you quicker. :) but wait til you are ready............for marriage, not for the "premarital relations" lol.
2007-06-25 08:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why would you want to? I mean, besides just the chemistry thing, don't you want to know that you are loved for something other than your body? If you have a boyfriend who wants to wait for marriage, consider yourself blessed. That means he has respect for you and himself, and most importantly, he trusts God to know what is best. Peace.
2007-06-25 08:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by superfluity 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Awwww..the sacrificial virgin.
Just stand in front of your boyfriend naked, he will be calling out Jesus's name in no time.
Good luck.
2007-06-26 06:22:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋