Guys please answer this...?

Question

Guys only go out with me because my family has a lot of money and they always expect me to pay for everything, how do u know when a guy actually likes u for u?

Answer 1

You need to generate a set of questions than can tell the difference.

Example: What about me is attractive to you?
My family is leaving me no money as soon as I get married, are you still interested in me?

Answer 2

Let them know that money can't buy everything, i.e. Love, happiness,friends. As far as your question goes; How much do you have in common (i.e.: hobbies,ect), The guy usually pays the tab,he won't stand there and wait for you to pay for everything.
Passionate,winks,helping when he can. He should be caring, try hard not to slap/hit. Holding you in a comfortable way, the X's and O's. walking to and from doors, holding the door for you not crirtasizing you or anyone else for that matter. Not foul-mouthing everytime something doesn't go right nor looks for fights. If you can find a guy like like this,you're lucky. As the saying goes, bait and hook (lol).
Keep looking you may find him. Maybe have better luck than I am finding ms right.

Answer 3

Guys generally want something. I don't normally hear of guys going out with girls to have them pay for everything, usually that's girls. But guys may go out with you just to sex with you too. This isn't meant to sound bleak and not all guys use women in these ways. When a guy likes you for you usually comes after you've gone out for a while and he can see past how cute you are or your money or how good you are in bed. If a guy sticks around he probably likes you for you. It's the danger of putting your heart on the line. Some people will just step on it. Good luck and not all guys will hurt you.

Answer 4

I think you should act poor to test them if they really like you do, not tell them about your family until you know it's save. If that doesn't work NEVER carry any money unless you go shopping well only carry a little bit not enough for a fancy date. Try to go to a cheap restaurant if they don't like the idea just dump him, if he comes out normal go further and go step by step by that I mean that on the first date don't go anywhere fancy try to use normal thing not too fancy and not too poor.

Answer 5

well you will know when a guy likes you for you when he doesn't except your money or your families money. he would be happy regardless to buy you dinner or go to the movies. a guy should also pamper you when in need and not take advantage of you because of who you are? or what you have? but girls do that to us guys they always want us guys to pay for them even when we have no money. i wish there was a girl out there that i can be compatible with but dating is sooooooo overrated.

Answer 6

Go out with a guy and go to like an expensive restarant and then when your done eating and all say you have to use the bathroom and then leave. That will teach them.

Answer 7

dont tell him ur family has money n let him buy his own stuff every time ya'll go out n if the guy loves u then he will tell u

Answer 8

If you can't tell the difference between someone loving you and someone loving the money you have then perhaps love just isn't your "thing".

Love is very complicated, but if understood it is so very simple at the same time.

Answer 9

Well...that would be difficult in your situation. Can you conceal the fact that your family has "a lot of money" ?

Answer 10

take ur time, see if he is ok with a relationship in slo-mo, dont go on dates, just call him babe and such, take it slow. If he presses the subject then, he wants ur wallet. Keep holding on, there is someone 4 u out there!