What are things you guys hate your girlfriends do...like stuff you would change about them...and what do u love that they do...stuff that makes you feel loved.....other than sexual things.
2007-06-25 05:34:38 · 29 answers · asked by missconfused316 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Things that my girlfriend do that I dislike , I wont say change for only she can do that
1. hate when she is over my house and she leaves make up all over the bathroom .
2.when she put a wet towel over the shower curtain, Why not put it in the hamper ? if your finish with it.....
3. Not drying dishes and putting them away after use....
4. changing the music without asking...
5.talking on the phone for 2-3 hours straight. - yes on my phone...
Things that make a brother feel Loved.
1.I don't have too ask her to do laundry she will go over and do laundry, do my shipping, clean , cook..
2. Bring me lunch at work.
3. The way she runs her fingers thew my hair is so amazing
4. Being the women that she is and doing the thing,s that she do unselfishly let's me know that I'm LOVED.........
5.Carrying herself as a lady..
6. When she ask me what I would like for her to wear when we go out , that's when you know your LOVED and that she got your back for life........
2007-06-25 05:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love when my girlfriend shares interests with me. I like when she supports my decisions. I like how she'll pick me up when I'm feeling down, or take care of me when I'm sick.
I dislike being asked about my feelings constantly. I also hate hearing about every minute detail of her day, a general summary is fine; I don't need to know what her coworker was wearing today.
I'll leave out all of the sexual stuff, but that is all important also.
2007-06-25 12:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by Disillusion 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the main thing in any relationship honestly is just listening. i'm almost 19 and i've been dating this same girl since i was 15, (almost four years). guys usually want a girl that's fairly open minded (depending on the guy it may very open minded). Us guys are also known for coming up with super-duper ideas that could change the world and then not doing anything with them, be supportive in those times, don't shoot them down, we have to learn that on our own. ALWAYS be positive, even when we're being negative. if things start going bad, just put a positive spin on things. be down to earth. Less makeup = more. no makeup (for most guys) = most. lots of guys just want to see a girl for who she is. if you're looking for a guy who will stay with you, sex is not everything, and i would highly recommend staying away from it, it causes many many problems. for most guys long hair is a plus as well. guys go through just as many if not more phases than girls, just realize they're phases. make sure you have a guy that can talk about anything, and be willing to talk...make sure you have a guy that cares more about you than blabbing to his friends too. umm, if i think of anything else i'll post it. enjoy!
2007-06-25 12:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I normally pick the kind of girl whose good and bad qualities i have already come to terms with.. But things that make me feel loved... Hmmn.. When the girl i'm with hugs me even in public.. When she'd squeeze my hand only when she's delighted or when she wants to tell me she loves me. When she gives me a nickname that embodies what i am to her or how much i mean to her (and something funny as well) ..when she's completely honest, i feel that somehow, there's love with respect.. even when the truth stings. When she comes running to me before anyone else when she's got good news or has a problem.. When she lets me know she's thinking about me (naughtily or not).. those are just some of them. :)
2007-06-25 13:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by Rogee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate it when the girl is so high mantainence. i think its great that the girl wants to look her best as should the guy but you have to have a limit. when the girl surprises her honey with a home cook dinner or even a night out without the guy paying. i have never had that but that would tell me the girl is a down to earth girl and doesn't mind treating her man once in awhile. i even love it when she rubs the hair on top of my head and massages me a little bit too!
2007-06-25 12:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by gasguy695 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman should respect they man, and their man should respect and treat with love their woman, otherwise get rid of him. Always be by him, communication is good. PERSONALITY CHARACTERISTICS
Personality characteristics are defined as those traits with which you are born or naturally
inclined to have and to use. Choose the traits that reflect your greatest strengths.
_____ ACCURATE: Work free from error or mistakes; careful, precise; detailed
_____ ACTIVE: Lively; agile; high energy; busy
_____ ADVENTUROUS: Try new things; take risks
_____ ANALYTICAL: Examine and separate the parts of something to find its essential meaning
_____ ARTISITIC: Appreciation of or ability in the arts
_____ ATTENTIVE: Listen well; pay close attention to verbal and non-verbal messages
_____ ASTUTE: Perceptive; clever; insightful
_____ CALM: Remain peaceful, composed, and serene under pressure
_____ CAUTIOUS: Careful; prudent; exercise forethought
_____ COMPASSIONATE: Considerate; sympathetic; humane
_____ COLLABORATIVE: Working as a team
_____ COMPETENT: Skilled; qualified; capable
_____ COMPETITIVE: Strive to win; oppose a rival
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_____ CONCERNED: Care and high regard
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_____ DECISIVE: Show firm determination in using judgement to make decisions
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_____ DIPLOMATIC: Tactful; skillful at negotiating
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_____ EMPATHIC: Sensitive to or identify with the feelings of others; warm
_____ ENTHUSIASTIC: Show interest and excitement; expressive
_____ FIRM: Unlikely to change mind; adamant; certain
_____ FLEXIBLE: Adaptable; versatile
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2007-06-25 12:42:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys like to relax when they come home. At least for an hour or so. Women shouldn't jump them to go out right away. Give us a chance to decompress.
I like it when my GF knows little insignificant things about me. That lets me know she's paying attention. So for example she cooks me dinner and says, I know you don't like onions so I didn't put them in. Or, I go to take a shower and find a brand new bottle of shower gel in the brand I use. these are the little tihngs that tell me she loves me.
2007-06-25 12:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by m_c_m_a_n 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me, I get annoyed when girls talk incessantly about what they've been doing and describe in minute detail every aspect of their day. I get pissed off at guys who do the same thing as well.
Stuff that makes me feel loved:
1) touching and/or hugging me for no reason;
2) Passionate kisses;
3) intelligent conversation about things that are imortant to us;
4) hearing her plans for our future;
5) her contented sighs.
Luck to you.
2007-06-25 12:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by crow3862000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys in general are insecure and unsure of themselves. The best and most important thing you can ever do is to support your man and have faith in him no matter what. Also, due to the lack of confidence a man needs to be complimented, given you dont want to over-do it. Basically support him and make sure he knows that you care about him.
2007-06-25 12:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate:
>Being "corrected" so frequently that I can't function normally
>Her flirting too heavily with other guys, making me look and feel like a jackass, coming back to me, gloating about it and expecting me to be like "well golly, isn't that swell!"
>Being treating like I'm in her way
I love:
>Being acknowledged for the things I go out of my way to do for her
>Being told what makes me special in her eyes
>Being generally adored
2007-06-25 12:40:43 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋