I'm a virgin and me and my boyfriend were just messing around and he tried to stick 1 finger in my vagina and it hurt so bad I had to make him stop..Is this normal?
2007-06-25 05:01:29 · 9 answers · asked by Erica I 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You might need to buy some lubricant. Also he needs to move slow and patient. This is brand new for your body so have him take his time.
2007-06-25 05:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by serendipity_siren 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Completely normal. You are not used to that kind of touch. If you are uncomfortable stop. You did the right thing by stopping. If he ever pushes you he is not worth your time. Make sure your ready to get into anything. It might hurt the first few times until your body gets used to that kind of touch. Its all new.
2007-06-25 12:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by Shelby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your mom...........she probably needs to tell you about the Birds and the Bees.
And also looking at your past questions:
Should I hurt this bad?
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2007-06-25 12:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
It should not hurt this bad. My guess is that were not "relaxed" enough for this kind of messing around. Did YOU really want this or did you do it to please your boyfriend. Sometimes you have to wait until your mind is ready too...
If you really want it and it still hurts talk to you ob/gyn. He/She can help you to find lubricate etc. and talk about birth-control.
2007-06-25 12:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by Frau Reck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with Queen B.
Your past questions do raise alarm. Take care and be safe. No need to grow up so quickly.
2007-06-25 12:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by Nymph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, initially your first penetration will hurt. It may help to try some lubricant and be relaxed. If you are tensed, it will hurt more. Remember to be safe.
2007-06-25 12:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by beeslady115 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, very normal...
for some it is more painful than others...
dont stress it... just relax and when the time is right for you to take that step... all will be fine...
2007-06-25 12:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberlie H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to stop you arent ready for any kind of sex act. your too tense. when your ready it wont hurt as bad
2007-06-25 12:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it's ok for it to hurt that bad, to be honest it hurts like hell!!! but after some practice your should be ok
2007-06-25 12:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by white_star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋